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Hi Guys,
If you don't mind my asking, I'm curious as to what you all spend as far as groceries on a weekly/monthly basis.
I'm in the process of creating a budget to track where all the money is all going, and I've noticed that since I moved states a few months ago I seem to be spending a lot more on groceries (like seriously I'm spending twice as much on food here than I was before). I guess I'm just curious to see if what I'm spending is completely out of line compared to others.
I like to buy whole/unprocessed foods, and lots of fruits and veggies which I know can be expensive, but I'm also a vegetarian and I would have thought that would help tame my grocery bill at least a little.
Also, if anyone has any tips on finding some good/inexpensive produce I'd love to hear them! Even though I'm paying more for produce, I feel like the quality and variety has gone down from what I'm used to and it's frustrating!
Thanks in advance!
Re: Grocery budget?
If you have the space look into a community supported agriculture and local farm where you can purchase an eighth of local beef!
When we are in the winter season, we eat organic frozen veggies from BJs, WF, or TJs. Traditional grocery stores in our area are far more expensive for organic. I only buy fresh produce in season. I also keep some TJs frozen meals on hand for lazy nights. We live in MA which has a lot of these types of stores; it could be trickier in other parts of the country.
We do a lot of tofu stir-fries, potato dishes, pizzas, soups,and pastas. I look for recipes with as few ingredients as possible, and make extra for the next day's lunch. We'll compromise on organic for lunch snacks-I just can't quit Cheezits-It's!
ETA our actual budget: $300-$400 a month
H and I spend usually no more than $400 per month and it's just the two of us plus the dog. We shop at Shoprite grocery store weekly and go to BJ's about every 2 months just to stock up on meat $50-$60 or so. Our regular grocery shopping includes fruit, deli, some processed foods, snacks, dairy, paper products and sometimes meat. We don't eat out often. We don't cook fancy meals and we don't have a ton of ingredients in our house, so we buy our weekly meal ingredients the week before. H isn't going to be home much now because of school, so I will eat pasta, soups, or breakfast for dinner
We're trying $400 a month for me, hubby & roommate (we provide dinner for him about 4 times a week) and our 3 small dogs. I am currently including the cost of paper products & dog food in that budget.
You said you recently moved to a new state. If you haven't already, talk to your co-workers to see if they can recommend any places in the area for veggies that are priced good. They may be able to recommend a little mom/pop market where you can get great deals on food or even a larger grocery store that you haven't gone to because it's not in your normal area.
Back in Colorado I used to spend maybe $300-350 or so on food. But I used to be part of a CSA, and also used to shop at places like Sunflower market which has cheap produce\\--they were like a cheaper version of Whole Foods, lol. I guess I got spoiled over there.
Now I'm spending close to $600 a month, and not getting nearly the same variety of food I used to be able to access which I think is what frustrates me. Most of the grocery stores around here have very small produce sections, and I've started going to one that's almost 30 minutes away because they tend to have better looking stuff--even there it's hit or miss though. I couldn't even find lettuce or apples that looked decent enough to buy this week!
There's plenty of fast food places around me, corner shops that might have a small frozen veggie section, lots of liquor stores, but if you want to get fresh food you're out of luck for the most part. I did just find out that there is a Whole Foods and a TJs about 45 minutes from me, so I might have to go check those out and see if it's worth it to make the trip on a regular basis.
Like a few people mentioned, I also make my own cleaning products and we tend to use cloth in place of things like paper towels and napkins so that's not a big cost for us. H and I also take lunch in to work everyday, usually leftovers. It's just so frustrating when I feel like I'm paying so much and yet living so frugally to try and keep costs down (it's a good thing I grew up on rice and beans and love them, haha), especially since I was told that the COL here would be lower than what I was used to. Guess not!
Thanks again for all all your suggestions!
We have had luck placing bulk orders through a local co-op grocery store which lets us stock up on things like beans, tomatoes, toiletries, etc. that we use regularly without paying the store mark-up. We can also shop the bulk distributor sale catalog, which makes things even cheaper. We try to get out berry picking and apple picking in season so that we can freeze and can them for later use, which is also cheaper than buying frozen berries and apple sauce.
We joined a CSA this year, and I honestly didn't find it to be much of a savings. We still had to buy quite a bit of produce even during the growing season. We had a CSA in a different location that I felt provided much more bang for my buck.
We usually spend about $500/month on groceries for a family of 4. I buy pretty much all organic meats, dairy, fruits, veggies, breads, pastas, etc for us. We have pretty big grocery stores here (one of them is Wegmans if anyone is familiar with that company) and we just got a Trader Joe's a few months ago. There is also a great co-op about 10 minutes from our house and we have a local farmers market right at our village municipal building (just down the road) from June - October. My parents have 22 acres of land so they have an enormous organic vegetable and fruit garden that help us in the summer months. We grow blueberries and we usually get tomato plants every summer, but my girls want to try snap peas this year.
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cbee817, that garden sounds amazing! I would love to have acres of land to grow my own veggies. If we manage to close a deal on a house before springtime I'm hoping to be able to grown at least a few things.Snap Peas are my H's favorite--he has very fond memories of going up to his grandparents farm and eating them right off the vine.
I'll be looking to see if there are any CSA's in the area or something similar. Love the idea of berry picking too--yummy!
We spend around $300-350 for myself and H, and this includes cleaning supplies, most toiletries, paper products, etc. I do all the shopping; the few times he comes with me, we always spend way more than when I'm on my own. Funny how that works!
I shop at Albertsons and Wal-mart; Albertson's is actually a little bit more expensive, but they have better customer service, usually no lines, and it's just a more pleasant shopping experience. I also have some toiletry and cleaning items that I get through Amazon's Subscribe and Save program, such as deodorant, dryer sheets, etc.
Currently we live out in the Powder Springs area, which we thought we would like as it has a charming small town feel to it, but I don't think it's the place for us, so as soon as our lease is up we're out of here, lol.
I buy a lot of manager special meats and freeze them when I can find great sales. I will also buy to the limits (think 2 or 3) briskets, ribs, whatever when they put them on sale for 99 cents a pound. That is actually one of the major ways that I save on groceries.
I haven't been to most of the places you mentioned, unless driving through on a road trip counts, but I'll have to go check them out. I love the beach so I will for sure be heading that way come summertime. Up until I was about 10 I lived in Miami with my grandparents, who had a condo on the beach. Man I miss those days, haha! And you're right, nothing beats Disney World! One of these days I want to go to the Harry Potter theme park too--that would be a blast!
You truly know the way to my heart, lol. I can do some serious damage at a bookstore--H and I have talked about building our dream house in the next 10 years or so. That house will have a big library filled with books, non-negotiable!
Sounds like some pretty cool places to check out. I studied history in school and I'm fascinated by how rich the history in this part of the country is. I'm such a nerd--I love going to old battlefields and places like that and just envision what life must have been way back when. I think some hiking will be in order once the weather warms up a bit.
Thanks!