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Do you have a ''porn'' type?

I am going with AE not because this is taboo or anything but because a few people know about me being on the site and I will use this one for ''raunchy'' posts or problems in my relationship .

So,  I was talking about porn with my best friend  (the one I can talk to about stuff like this) and it turns out that we have different tastes.. she likes asian for example and I don't. My FI also likes some stuff that I don't and vice versa. So what about you? Do you like something specifically that your SO doesn't? What do you like and what do you pay attention to ?

As for me, I hate guys that talk during the act and hate silly language. For girls I  like blondes , redheads ,usually big boobs and hate the nails. What about you?

Re: Do you have a ''porn'' type?

  • I was never really a sexy lingerie type. Nice lingerie and fancy nightgowns are okay. If he likes 'em, I'll accommodate him.

    I never "got" how a bra, panties and a garter belt with stocking was "sexy."  Seems stereotyped to me.

    I positively cannot stand tightie whiteys on guys.  I knew a guy who wore nothing but.  Either wear boxers or briefs; don't wear that shitty cross between the 2 of them. 

    I don't like the guys who like this "parade around me in yoru underwear" stuff.

    I'm with you: keep the silly stuff like naming your johnson after yourself with the title of "little" or "big" in front of it --- none of that Big Steve, Little Frankie, etc stuff. I don't like names for one's privates.

    Dirty talk with "baby" attached to it, at the start, in the middle or the end. Blech.
  • Using the f word like it's a comma. I.e. "I'm gonna f you so hard." Just do it, I don't need a script. DH said something like that one night in bed, and I burst out laughing - more because he's the quiet, geeky, rocket scientist, Eagle Scout, sci-fi kinda guy, not the 50 Shades kinda guy. 

    Full body suits that are see through. Really? You're basically putting on a colored condom that's going to have to be peeled off. Onesies are for babies, not baby makers.

    Yelling for the sake of yelling. If it helps, moan away, but if you're just doing it because there's a camera on you, then don't. You sound ridiculously stupid. 
  • Lol I was actually talking about tastes in porn, like if you like the same things haha. But I am totally with you girls.( what's that with the dirty talk and the ''baby'' in it?.When will this thing become extinct?)
  • I rather dislike actual porn with real people. The bouncing just looks so gross, and the body types are almost never what I want to see. I much prefer looking at stills of naked women and occasionally men. For moving porn, on the rare occasion I'm in the mood, I wind up with anime scenes because they're more visually appealing. I have to have it sans sound, because the English scripts are just stupid-sounding on dubs and the Japanese voices on subs are usually grating in some fashion.

    My 'type' tends to be tall and dark and slim with facial hair for men and short and petite redheads or brunettes for women.

    I'm not positive what H looks at, but I think he also tends towards stills, whether soft- or hardcore.
  • Here's another tacky turn off:

    Mesh see through underwear...for men.

    Who would wear such a stupid tacky thing??? how is this a turn on?
  • I can't stand a male dominant porn video like boss/secretary man/babysitter it is so cliche. Come on, come up with a new story. I don't have a particular type in men but in porn I don't like beards,mustaches or long hair. I like women without surgery even if they have almost non-existent boobs. No one with south of the boarder piercings.

    It's okay to be vocal but not to the point where I think they must have put the sound over the action shot because really doesn't she need to breath?

    I also really like multiples. Doesn't matter the number or ratio of sexes involved. My favorite is where a honeymooning couple are getting a massage and there is a male and female massage therapist and everybody gets a happy ending :P DH has the same interests. Sometimes he will say what I'm thinking when a certain chapter comes on "Skip this one, that guy is old and has saggy balls."

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  • I used to like anime but now not so much. I like a little bit of ''outside'' sex , in a car or something. I am really fan of the ''group'' scenarios, a good threesome or foursome always gets me going. I don't like beards or too much hair in guys and I don't like it when they use stupid cheesy lines. When it comes to girls I don't have a special preference, most of them know what they are doing anyway haha. I used to have a thing for busty blondes but know I don't really care. If the girl can give a good BJ  and ispire me I am good lol
  • My idea of porn and arousal is watching my DH do housework, run errands etc so I can have some peace and quiet.
  • I don't like real people, for some reason it disgusts me, lol, my husband doesn't of course, but other men do... weird... lol! I like looking at hentai/anime style. Not the videos though, I'm just into the pictures... I guess I'm weird like that. But I prefer to fantasize what's happening in the photo vs watching a video where the storyline is given. 

    My husband just likes anything with boobs, lol!
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