I can't believe I'm putting this out there...

Saragem1982 · January 2014

Hi ladies,

You all are so supportive, and this has been weighing heavily on me the last couple of months. I think H and I are going to start counseling- I've been to counseling myself, but never marriage, or couples counseling. Our sex life is great, our finances are great, we are just having some major bumps in the road with communication. It's hard for me to admit that we are taking this step so soon in our marriage, but something's gotta give, I just casually mentioned to my mom, last night that H and I talked about going, and she was very positive and thinks it's a great idea. Like I said, I've gone to counseling, and am VERY for it-However, for some reason this feels like I'm admitting that I've failed at marriage. Please send Nestie vibes, as I'll be calling on Monday to schedule our first session

geojam224 · January 2014

We are behind you 100%. Us Nesties stick together trough thick and thin, like we've married each other! Hang in there, counseling will be great. No shame in that. H and I have all kinda of marriage counseling books that we read together almost like marriage exercises. Nestie vibes sent! We love you :-)

mancila60 · January 2014

I agree with @geojam224 we are behind you 100% and send you so much nestie vibes. Don't think you have failed at marriage! I think all relationships (married or not) go through times of non communication and this just may be that time for you. Just know that since you both are on the same page about it is a step in the right direction. I wish nothing but the best for you and your H and I hope everything works out perfectly ( I know it will!)

mandi921vh · January 2014

Going to marriage counseling does not mean you have failed at your marriage, I applaud your for seeking help and working on your marriage

nighthawkswife · January 2014

sounds like your doing the exact opposite of failing.

seems like to me you and hubby are doing everything possible to fix what is an issue! sounds like success to me!

mildlymailyn · January 2014

I agree with all of the above! Counseling means you are working on something, not giving up. Keep it positive! Many nestie vibes and good luck!

Melissa51212 · January 2014

sending lots of prayers to you! I think its a great thing you are doing!!! much love xox

bpphoto785 · January 2014

You are definitely not failing. Failing would be just giving up. Working on your relationship is the best thing you can do. Marriage is not easy and we will all hit rough patches. Working through tough times will make you a stronger couple in the end. Good luck and keep us posted!