Alright MM folks - I just got insurance info from my new job. While I thought this would be an obvious choice, it isn't.
Here's the deal: my new firm covers $420/month in premium costs. Anything over that is paid by us. Anything under that can be sent to an HSA or to other things (dental, flex-spending account, etc.). We also get a $600/year reduction in our premiums for having an annual physical and "making a healthy choice." I have no idea what that means, but I will be sure to ask so I can qualify for it.
I'm trying to choose between two plans:
1) Silver/HSA - the premiums for this plan would be fully covered by the $420/month allowance. I would also end up with about $1450/year in HSA contributions from my employer when you take into account the allowance money left over and the $600 wellness benefit. My annual deductible would be $2,500. My (expensive) birth control would be full price, but it will count toward my annual deductible ($93/month). I would be inclined to pay for the birth control out of pocket so that I can invest the HSA funds (more on that below).
2) Gold - the premiums for this plan are almost covered by the $420/month allowance. I would end up paying $8/month out of pocket without the wellness benefit. With the wellness benefit I would pay nothing out of pocket for the premiums, and I would be able to put about $500 into a flex-spending account for medical expenses during the year. No HSA with this one. $1,000 annual deductible. My birth control would have a reduced co-pay ($45/month) but it would not count toward my annual deductible. I would pay for the birth control from my flex-spending account, since I would lose that money at the end of the year if I didn't use it.
Here's my dilemma. In a "normal" year the vast majority of my health costs come from the birth control I use. I'm on an expensive kind because I get bad reactions to other kinds. So I'm not going to change that. I also typically have an annual exam, and a dermatology screening once a year. The annual exam is covered in full under both plans as a physical. My dermatologist charges $110 for my annual screening, and it will not be covered by either plan (though it will count toward my deductible for both plans). Other than that, I typically don't go to the doctor. I haven't been to the Dr. for a sickness or injury-related issue in more than 5 years.
Under the Silver Plan, I will have an HSA which I can basically use as another Roth. Those funds can be invested and grow tax-free. They can be withdrawn in retirement and can be used for anything. I'm thinking to myself: "Sweet!" Because we all know how much I love Roth accounts. BUT I will spend about $1,226 per year out of pocket for routine health costs that I know I will consume to have that plan.
Under the Gold plan, I won't have an HSA. But I will only spend about $150 per year out of pocket for routine health costs that I know I will consume.
What would MM do?
Re: MM: Which health insurance policy?
I would go with option #2. Because you would be money ahead on an annual basis.
Also look at the maternity coverage on each plan. Double check what the maximum OOP expense is. Especially since you've mentioned TTC in the next few years.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
That's some great flexibility!
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Once your H starts his job and you have kids, his plan plus the FSA is definitely the best option. We're in the same boat that there is no "couple" rate for our health plan, just "individual" or "family." It's a drag right now, but nice to know our rate won't increase once we have kids!
I would definitely keep your BC with a clear conscience. It's a drag that the cheap versions don't work for you, but nothing's worth feeling like crap like that.
FYI- for the dependent care FSA, you can only put $5000/year in there so it'll be less than $420/month. I have $192.30 deducted from my paycheck every 2 weeks.
Definitely see about maternity coverage on both plans. Do they offer free well visits for kids to 19? Typically, a healthy baby will go 7 times in the first year (1 week, 1 month, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months, 9 months, 12 months) just for well visits. My plan also has free sick visits for kids to 19- not sure how standard that is in other states but definitely check it out if you're planning on starting a family soon.
When I first read your OP, I leaned toward Silver too.
When you have a baby, your health insurance will give you an opportunity to change even outside the annual enrollment period since having a baby is a "qualifying life event."
The only caveat to doing one versus the other is how both plan options handle prenatal care for you....I know you are on BC, but things can happen.