Baby or not to baby update

Melissa51212 · February 2014

I feel like I need to fill / vent to you ladies about some decisions that have happened. After a few months and lots of thinking and long talks me and H deciced that between my health, our jobs not believing in raises and our debt that we have deciced to live the child free lifestyle. Maybe in a few years if financially we are in a better spot and my health stays well we may look into adoption, but I think we have finally close the door on pregnancy because of my health, the risk is just too high. I'm in the grieving process of letting this experience that most woman want go. I always been back and forth with baby fever but thought eventually we would have children. Even though I'm sad and kinda depressed I know this is the right decision.

adventureisoutthere · February 2014

It's not a decision to make lightly and it sounds like you and your h put a lot of thought into it. Only you guys know what's best for you, your life, and your health. I'm sure it was an incredibly tough decision and you know we're here whenever you need to chat!

Mona8 · February 2014

heightdeprived said:

It's not a decision to make lightly and it sounds like you and your h put a lot of thought into it. Only you guys know what's best for you, your life, and your health. I'm sure it was an incredibly tough decision and you know we're here whenever you need to chat!

This. I hope eventually your decision can bring you some peace. We're here for you when you need us.

kushie77 · February 2014

**hugs** it's a hard decision and take the time to grieve , if you ever want to talk, you have my number.

mildlymailyn · February 2014

We are all here for you. You can be an amazing mother to any number of furbabies or an adopted child if that is what you want in the future. Good luck and keep your head up.

mancila60 · February 2014

I think by putting your health first you are being a good parent already. You need to be healthy and take care of yourself first. I think adopting is an amazing choice and either way you will be an amazing mom which is the ultimate goal. Keep your head up and we are always here for you but I think you and your H are being very smart.