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phudgens88 · February 2014

I recently found out my bf is still in contact with a girl he used to hook up with. They both say they're just friends but I've asked him before to have no contact with her because I don't trust her because she has always tried to sabotage our relationship cause she's jealous that he's with me. When he and I broke up for a little while they hung out and she allowed him to meet her daughter and claims she wants to let him know how she's been doing but something tells me that isn't true. I told him if she's going to be a part of his life then I wouldn't because I feel like he should respect me and not talk to her. Am I wrong for that?

ReturnOfKuus · February 2014

I think you should break up with him again, and make it stick this time.

TarponMonoxide · February 2014

phudgens88 said:

I recently found out my bf is still in contact with a girl he used to hook up with. They both say they're just friends but I've asked him before to have no contact with her because I don't trust her because she has always tried to sabotage our relationship cause she's jealous that he's with me.

Here is where he needed to tell her goodbye. This "friend" is no friend.

I suspect he likes the hubbub and ego stoke that this "Gee I have 2 girls who really really like me" provides for him.

This is only a boyfriend?

Say goodbye to him. Find yourself another guy who has no former ladyfriends hanging around who want to throw a monkey wrench into the works.

When he and I broke up for a little while they hung out and she allowed him to meet her daughter and claims she wants to let him know how she's been doing but something tells me that isn't true. I told him if she's going to be a part of his life then I wouldn't because I feel like he should respect me and not talk to her. Am I wrong for that?

This all is too much. Don't see this guy anymore, break up with him. He's not worth your time or trouble.

The best way to do a breakup:

CLEAN BREAK.

You do not keep in touch with him; you change your phone numbers and don't answer any emails or snail mails he may leave you.

"I have decided to move on. I want a boyfriend who has no former girlfriends hanging around to cause a rift between us."

That is what you say. And you say no more.

artbyallie · February 2014

Yeah, break up with him, because he's the one you don't trust.

It doesn't matter if you trust her or not. She's not the one dating you. He's your boyfriend; he'd be in the wrong if he cheated, not her. She can't force him to do anything, so he'd be the one sabotaging your relationship.

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