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ErikaB123 · February 2014

Excuse me for being VERY frank here...but I think mens balls are disgusting. We were doing reverse cowgirl position the other night and I looked down and saw his balls and was like "Uhm honey, this isn't working for me". We both started laughing, he knows I think they're hideous. Can anyone else out there relate? Is there a way to get over this some how?

artbyallie · February 2014

Male genitalia certainly aren't particularly pretty, but that seems kind of mean to tell him you're disgusted by his testicles. Frankly, I never have occasion to look at my H's scrotum while having sex, so I can't say I relate. I look at his face, or whatever part I do find attractive, or else at nothing, dependent on position. Why can't you look ahead while in reverse cowgirl instead of down? Or look at his legs?

I will say I was shocked and a little weirded out the first time I saw his penis, but that was largely because I had zero idea what to expect, being incredibly naive and sheltered when we started dating.

TarponMonoxide · February 2014

Would it help if he manscaped a bit?

Or perhaps shaved his scrotum?

Maybe he'd be receptive to the idea. I dunno, something like, "Honey, I groom my private area and I'm pretty psyched with how great it looks --- would you consider thinking about doing the same with your private area? I know lots of guys don't care about grooming -- what do you think? Want to give it a try?"

biojess · February 2014

I just try to avoid looking at the parts of my partner that I find unattractive during sex. We alter positions to better suite our tastes.
So maybe reverse cowgirl isn't for you. You can get a similar feeling if you both lay on your side, and your top half is bent forward with your butt pressed up against him. Then you don't get a chance to see his balls without really trying.

DawnLilly · February 2014

I agree with the manscaping. Makes a big difference. I don't have an issue with his balls but I just avoid looking at the quality that I don't find attractive.... His size 13 farmer man feet.

ErikaB123 · February 2014

Thanks for the advice ladies. After reading the comments I do feel like I'm being a bit of a bi*ch. I love my husband to death and maybe telling him his balls disgust me isn't completely necessary. I am being honest though! Manscaping and different positions...got it, thanks!

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