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What a shitty way to start the week (pr, not me)

H's ex wife called and had a lovely chat with him this morning.  She ended the conversation with, "In case the girls mention anything, just wanted to let you know that I'm expecting."  Awesome.  Just fucking awesome.  

She just got married on New Years Eve and she's already fucking pregnant!!  I broke down in the car on the way to work, like full on ugly cry.  I tried so hard to hold it in, but I had to let it go.  I hate to admit it, but I am beyond jealous.  She already has two daughters and now she's pregnant again with her new husband within months!!  Meanwhile, here we are, trying to catch up from the expense of a FAILED cycle.  It just sucks, so hard.

And what makes it worse is that I am alone in feeling this way.  Since H already has two daughters, he just doesn't get it.  He doesn't know how this all feels.  I want to take it out on him so badly, but I know that won't do any good.  

This is my first official Fuck You IF!
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  • I'm so sorry. Feel free to vent everything out. Lots of hugs
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • I'm so sorry.  I can't even imagine going through that, and how that feels.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • Oh jeez, I'm so sorry for the bad news first thing in the morning.

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  • Ugh, that really does suck. I'm sorry. :(
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  • I am so sorry :-(  That really sucks!  DH's son's mom got pregnant three times and had two kids with her new boyfriend before I could even get pregnant with the one.  It was so frustrating and I cried too.  I am sorry you are having to deal with that :-(
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    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
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  • Oh man, I'm so sorry! (((hugs)))
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  • I'm sorry. That is a horrible start to a week!
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    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

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  • I'm so sorry :( I hope the week only gets better from here (((hugs)))

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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • Ugh. What shitty news to start a Monday. Hoping your week gets better ASAP!
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    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • That is seriously shitty. :(

    And YH really needs to try harder to understand your feelings on this, since you haven't gotten the child of your own that you want so badly.

    I'd be seriously upset if I were you, too. Hell, I was jealous of our friends who got pregnant within a couple of months of getting married, and DH and I weren't even trying yet!! You have every right to feel like you do about this.
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    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • Big (hugs) to you.  I don't blame you for being upset with your H.
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  • Oh hun, I am so sorry! I'd be pissed too. Go ahead and feel free to be. Your H needs to work on being more understanding for you. This news does suck and so many hugs and thoughts your way. Cry scream do whatever you need to do. We are all here !! Xoxo
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  • Ugh, that's not fun news to be blindsided with. I'm sorry, and I hope your DH can gain some insight into how you're feeling.

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  • I'm so sorry. :(

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  • Thanks ladies.  I feel like I kind of threw H under the bus and I didn't mean to make it sounds like he's not supportive, because he is.  He's been my rock through all of this crap.  I just don't think he can truly understand how it feels because he already has children, just like anyone else with children that doesn't have IF problems wouldn't understand.

    I took a nap and cried some more.  Now drinking coffee and trying to get myself together.  We get my stepdaughters tonight and I need to be in a better mood for them.
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  • I'm so sorry. What a shitty way to start the week.

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  • I'm sorry. Fertility just isn't fair.

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    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
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                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
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  • Ugh, sorry man.  That sucks.
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  • Ugh that is really shitastic news. I'm sorry. 

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • That's such a bad way to start a Monday :( I'm so sorry you had to hear the news. 
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  • Oh man, that seriously sucks. I'm so sorry.

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  • Ugh...what a sucky Monday! I'm sorry :o(



    Me: PCOS and Hypothyroidism.
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  • I'm sorry :(
    Have you shared your feelings with DH?  Maybe he is hurting too.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • I'm so sorry! :(
  • Ugh. I'm so sorry. What a crap start to the week.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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  • Sorry, YS. :( Thinking about you… 


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Whoa, that does suck. I'm sorry. :(
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
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    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • I'm sorry :(
    Have you shared your feelings with DH?  Maybe he is hurting too.
    Yeah, he knows how I feel and the thing I love most about our relationship is that we are very open with each other.  I really wasn't in the mood to talk yesterday, but he did say that he hates seeing me so upset, that it hurts him too and just because he has kids doesn't mean his want for another child is any less.  So, that made me feel a little better.  He mentioned sitting down and taking another look at our financial priorities for the year.  We are planning on taking a break for a few months, but he said that we may need to hold off on some other things so we can maybe do another round sooner than later because he doesn't want me to be hurting like this anymore.

    Thanks for all the support ladies.  I feel much better today.  I just had to let myself be upset for a day and let it all out.
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  • I'm sorry. That really sucks.
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    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

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