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RE 2.0

So, thanks to an article that was posted by one of you lovely ladies a couple of months ago :), I was seriously questioning whether our RE was a good fit for us. DH, truthfully, was turned off by his approach from the beginning. I wasn't too thrilled with his use of the word "retarded" in our first meeting, but thought I was just being hypersensitive. However, I also didn't like that it felt like we were buying a new car rather than starting a family together. I haven't been satisfied with the fact that no explanation (or even testing) has been considered to determine why I have DOR or if something else might be going on. A friend recommended her RE who helped her get and stay pregnant with her twin girls about 7 years ago… I definitely wish now that I had taken her advice from the beginning because I really like this new doc. He actually did a physical exam during our consultation including an U/S (CD11). Previous RE did not, he just moved to pelvic U/S at CD3. New RE was quite surprised to hear that I'm not taking any Clomid currently because my left ovary has 2 beautiful follies ready to go right now (I definitely think this is due to the DHEA that I have been on for about 6 weeks now). He wants me to "get this cycle over" for testing purposes and prescribed a trigger that I gave myself yesterday. With the look at those follies though, we'll def being doing TI this cycle. ;) FX that this will be it!

He is interested in testing me for immune dysfunction or clotting issues, which may help explain things. He pointed out a few weird findings on exam, and since he could have easily told me (based on all the information he had from previous RE) that it was time to move onto IVF, I think this may be the right direction to go for now. I am curious to know if anyone else on here (especially those of you in the 3T group and/or grads) have ever had testing to look at immune dysfunction or clotting issues? Did this help you find any answers? If so, what was done to help treat you and did it help you have TTC success?

I'm hopeful that the coming weeks will bring some answers even if it doesn't bring us a BFP (although I would obviously prefer that!). 


TTC since 3/2012 
DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
Ovaries are done...
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)

Re: RE 2.0

  • I was tested for clotting issues after my loss since a)the placenta had clots in it and b)I have a family history.

    It came back all normal but they were concerned because many clotting disorders haven't been named/described/etc yet. With the clots in the placenta, there was a strong possibility.

    We'd talked about doing an injection (Lovenox, I may have spelled that wrong) to help in future pregnancies but in the end, just went with baby aspirin. I know other people here (thedeatons) have used it.

    Good luck!
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • I am so glad that you liked this RE better and that you had two pretty follies!  FX that you won't even need the testing!  But if so, I am glad you have a plan going forward!
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    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • So happy to hear that RE #2 is a better fit for you, and that he seems to be on top of it with testing and moving forward.  No knowledge on the other stuff, but good luck and I hope you don't even need to worry about a next cycle.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • Good luck with everything moving forward!  Glad you like this new RE better.
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  • I have no advice, but I'm so glad you found an RE who feels like a good fit for you! Good luck!

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    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • So glad you found a new RE and FX for you this cycle! :)

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  • We went through 3 REs. It's so important to find one you like and trust. Good luck moving forward.
  • good luck with everything moving forward! RE #2 sounds like a great fit!
  • I'm so glad that RE #2 seems like a great fit!  Having a doctor you like and trust is so important through this process.  Good luck moving forward!
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • So glad you've moved on to an RE you're happier with; having a doc you like makes such a difference!

    GL with those 2 beautiful follies, too! FX that the trigger and TI leads to success and you won't even need further testing!
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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • Good for you for moving to something that you know feels more right. I hope it's just the change you need!

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • I'm glad the RE is a better fit for you! I was diagnosed with clotting issues (factor VIII, which is a big deal to some and nothing to others...how confusing). I gave myself lovenox injections in the 2ww and would again if I were ever to be pg again. Good luck!

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • GL moving forward. I'm glad you've found someone you're comfortable with. 
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • Glad the new RE is working better for you! Good luck!
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  • So happy to hear that RE 2.0 is a great fit! It sounds like he really wants to get you an answer. Good luck with everything moving forward! 
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • We went through 3 as well. I was tested for all sorts of things after my losses but it all ended up coming back normal. I ended up taking baby aspirin anyways as a preventative measure and would do it again.
    Glad this feels like a better fit for you!
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

    TTC Buddies with *noelcallum* - Congratulations!
    Knottie Besties with *SparklingDiamond* - Congratulations!
  • I'm glad you've found someone that you feel better about.  Although, I hope you don't even need them ;)
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • I'm glad you're feeling better about this RE :) Definitely important.  He sounds like he's on top of things!
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    08/13: Started TTC  - 07/14: PCOS dx
    BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
  • The new RE sounds like a much better fit! This cycle sounds like it could be promising, good luck!

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  • Thank you all for your kind words! I love this community! :) I'll keep you posted!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I'm glad you found a RE that you're more comfortable with. Good luck!
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  • Glad you found an RE you're comfortable with.
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • Glad you found the best RE for you. I am on my 3rd and very happy with the decision. Lots of luck!
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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