Pittsburgh Nesties
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

DD

ryanthegirlryanthegirl member
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edited February 2014 in Pittsburgh Nesties
Thanks everyone!
Ryan & Casey Married July 17, 2004
Gabriel John Born February 23, 2012

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Re: DD

  • ryanthegirlryanthegirl member
    Ancient Membership 100 Comments 25 Love Its Combo Breaker
    edited February 2014
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    Ryan & Casey Married July 17, 2004
    Gabriel John Born February 23, 2012

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  • I would not feel obligated to invite them, you can let yourself off the hook for this one!  =)
  • Isn't that the truth about Facebook! When you invite them to things, do they show up? If I get invites to things that I know are more of a 'political' move than anything I tend to turn them down.
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  • So when you invite them to stuff, do they participate?

    I have had many friendships fall apart and eventually learned to stop feeling bad about it happening.  Sometimes it isn't worth trying to force something when you could just be enjoying your time elsewhere.
  • I would take it event by event.  The next time you are doing something if you don't mind if they come and it doesn't create any extra hassle for you by inviting them, then go for it.  But if you really don't want them there or sending an invite is more hassle than it is worth, forget it. 

    If you continue to invite them to things and they never do anthing then I would remove them from the "invite list" after a certain time period.

    I always to to do the nice thing, include people or be the bigger person, but it isn't always easy.  But after so many invites with no response or decline I think they are eventually just not worth it anymore.

  • I can't add anything different from the others have said. Good luck!

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    My three sons!

  • ryanthegirlryanthegirl member
    Ancient Membership 100 Comments 25 Love Its Combo Breaker
    edited February 2014
    Thanks, ladies.


    Ryan & Casey Married July 17, 2004
    Gabriel John Born February 23, 2012

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