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If you have a nanny, what is customary, having her drive your car or her using her own? If she uses her own, does she have a car seat permanently installed?
How do you handle insurance if she drives your car? My insurance mentioned I wouldn't need to add her if it was just occasional use. That makes me worry. To add her is $280/year, however.
She will be driving my LO max once per week (likely more like once every other week), 15 miles round trip, to a physical therapy appointment.
If she uses her car we plan to reimburse for mileage (IRS established rates).
Would love to hear the best way to approach this in a fair and safe fashion.
Beautiful baby girl born at 34 weeks due to vasa previa. Finally home after 15 day NICU stay!
Re: Nannies & Driving
Mileage reimbursement is kind-my employers just tended to "round up" when I drove. I put the car seat in every time I drove. I tend to camp, dive, and other equipment-heavy things on the weekend, so permanent installation would not have worked for me.
Overall I think your plans sound fair and good!
I am a PT nanny and I pick up the child I watch from school (about 1 mile from their house). I use my car and have a booster that I keep in the back seat although sometimes I remove it if I am hauling people/stuff on the weekends.
They reimburse me for mileage. I should add that my car is reliable and has excellent safety ratings.
Good luck!
Married August 2009
3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15
I nannied for 2 different families, and they each handled it differently.
The one had me put the carseat in my car and reimbursed me for mileage. Although I only drove him around once every other week.
The other family would leave me her SUV (she had a convertible she drove without the kids), and I would take that to get groceries, playdates, classes, preschool, etc.
It all depends on how often she would be using it. If it's just once every other week and she has a reliable car, then reimburse her for the use and go that way.
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