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3T Check In

If you have any changes to this list, wish to be removed, added, or have graduated (yay!), please shoot me a PM.

FYI: We don't want to exclude some ladies, but this is a check in for ladies who are unfortunately having trouble trying to conceive (TTTC=3T). If you've been trying for more than a year and/or have been diagnosed with any form of infertility OR are now pursuing adoption or have decided to remain childless following a 3T journey, you are welcome to join us.

Updates: Ok ladies... where are we at this week? Testing, Procedures, Appointments, Adoption updates, Life updates? What’s going on, etc. Let's hear all about it!

QOTW: Favorite sex position?

FFC/AW of the Week (no rules):

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3T

-Abt81813 - Graves Disease DX; Still testing for PCOS; Clomid cycle to start soon

--Aimothy: TTC since October 2009, DX: PCOS & Unexplained MFI, IVF Summer 2012

- amandaf6383: TTC since July 2012. DX: PCOS. On Metformin. Clomid & getting healthy before pursuing IUI/IVF

-brij2006: TTC since 4/13 DX: PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles); further treatment Winter 2015

-Flamingo86: TTC since July 2012, 4 losses. Dx: MTHFR, clotting issues, otherwise unexplained. Considering adoption.

-Frizby: TTC since July 2011, trying some natural remedies before moving forward.

- FutureMrsWright2012 - TTX since March 2012. DX: low AMH and decreased BAF count. 5/2013 - 2 unsuccessful Clomid + IUI cycles, and now waiting to start IVF in Summer 2014.

-Islandmonkey08 - TTC since January 2013. DX: Annovulatory/Unknown reason. IUI #1 currently happening Feb 2014.

-IloveRedVino: DX:Primary dx PCOS, secondary dx unexplained infertility. One stillbirth, one miscarriage, two failed IVF cycles. Exploring new options

-LooneyLife: TTC since May 2011, DX: Unexplained w/mild MFI

-nfp147: No longer actively TTC but still amazing support to 3T family and deeply loved.

-poppies717 - TTC since Feb 2012, DX: unexplained. Moving to IVF in winter 2014

-rccola1981: TTC since April 2011, DX: dx to mild PCOS, endometriosis and low sperm count

-Rockabye: TTC since Dec 2008, DX: PCOS with no ovulation at all. 2 failed Clomid/IUI cycles. Injectables April 2013 = BFN.

-Seahorsey: TTC since October 2008, DX:Unexplained IF with failed IUIs and IVFs

-Sewilson33 - TTC since Dec. 2012; SA & BW came back great; Next step: HSG & RE

-Sweetpotato123 - Diagnosed with PCOS August 2012, all tests clear for both me and Mr (will be doing another HSG hopefully in December just in case) . 4 unsuccessful rounds of Clomid, 3 femara/inject iuis with 1 chemical and one miscarriage just shy of 6 weeks. Going for more testing to look at cause of losses and trying to stay hopeful.

-Xan921: TTC since March 2012. DX irregular and anovulatory cycles; also DX with Complex Endometrial Hyperplasia.

-Ystaalenburg: TTC since February 2012 DX: PCOS @ 16; Currently taking break after 2 failed treatment cycles.


Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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Re: 3T Check In

  • I just got AF last night so I have to call my OBGYN and see if they still want to do my annual tomorrow. I have to get CD 2-3 bloodwork drawn again so that is tomorrow morning. Tuesday I have my first meeting with the RE at 9:30. I really think something is off with my body considering the spotting I experience this past cycle. I hope one of these doctors listens to me.

    QOTW: Cosmo calls it "On The Edge" basically he stands at the side of the bed and I lie on my back and hang over a tiny bit.

    FFC: I really want DH to go back on a diet with me. 1, I will feel better about myself but when he loses weight he stops snoring and wants to have sex more. So I'm being a little selfish in this situation but lack of sleep and lack of sex makes a very cranky woman.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • @abt113 Good luck with Clomid!  I hope this is exactly what you need.

    Update:  14DPO and a negative test this morning.  I've been spotting since a few days after O though, so heck if I know what my body is doing.  I'm fulling expecting full fledged AF in the morning.

    Just going to continue the PCOS/Gluten-Free diet.  H is really sad about the negative tests.  He even looked over my chart multiple times saying, "but our timing was perfect."  He's taking it a lot harder than I thought he would, but I just keep telling him that not all people get pregnant on the first cycle.  So it's okay.  Then he reminds me that it's been a year and this isn't our first cycle, just one of our first ones with a chance.

    QOTW: Favorite sex position? Doggy style-ish.  Where I lay all the way down. ;-)FFC/AW of the Week (no rules): FFC, I'm going to eat a reuben on Monday for St Paddy's day.  Screw you PCOS/GF diet. You didn't give me a baby this time, so I'm going to eat gluten!

     

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • Update: Nothing happening here, of course, but I did (I think) explain all about our journey, meds, current situation to my French teacher yesterday.  I was quite impressed with myself.

    QOTW: Me on top.

    AW: I've been really good this week; drinking two shakes a day and loading them up with fruit, almond milk, spinach, etc.  
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • Update: None. I'm 10DPO but have all of AF's symptoms and there's no reason to believe this cycle will be any different. 

    @Brij2006 - I'm still holding out hope!! And I'm sorry DH is taking it hard. 

    QOTW: Definitely doggy with a lot of hair pulling lol.

    FFC: AW pregnant friend texted me for my address for her baby shower and I'm already thinking of valid excuses in my head for not going.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • @amandaf6383 I hope AF stays far away from you, and they aren't AF symptoms.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • brij2006 said:
    @amandaf6383 I hope AF stays far away from you, and they aren't AF symptoms.
    You're sweet but BFN this morning and my LP is max 11 days...it's ok though. I've mentally prepped myself for not being one getting the "surprise" BFP!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Just got cleared today for our last IUI. Start femera tonight, Follistim starts Monday.

    I had a great conversation with the nurse RE: IvF and had some questions answered. We would start cycling in May the day of our 5th anniversary.

    I'm excited to try something new, but still holding out hope. 6th times the charm, right?

    Sending good vibes out to you all.

    Sewilson33- good luck with your appointment!

    Abt8113- lots of luck with clomid. I hated it but fingers crossed it is just what you need.
    **Signature Warning**

    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • ((hugs)) and love to all you wonderful ladies.

    Updates: Waiting for these follies to mature. Hoping I don’t overstim again. I’ll get a call this afternoon to see where I’m at. 

    QOTD: me on my back on a table, DH standing

    Any of you ladies who took Bravelle or other FSH meds get horrible headaches on it? I didn’t have this last cycle but this cycle they’re bad. I feel like I can barely function today. I don’t know if it is because it has been so many more days of the Bravelle compared to last cycle.

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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • Update:  Nothing new here.  I was supposed to have my annual tomorrow and then schedule my surgery but my obgyn had to go out of town suddenly so that got rescheduled until next Friday.

    QOTW:  Maybe I'm boring but I like missionary.  I also have an orgasm every.single.time we do missionary so I guess that's why it is my favorite.

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • Xan921 said:

    QOTW:  Maybe I'm boring but I like missionary.  I also have an orgasm every.single.time we do missionary so I guess that's why it is my favorite.

    Good reason!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Xan921 said:


    QOTW:  Maybe I'm boring but I like missionary.  I also have an orgasm every.single.time we do missionary so I guess that's why it is my favorite.

    This is the exact reason why I love getting it from behind!
  • Update-nothing new here, we were asked a few times at my uncle's funeral when we would have kids :-( QOTW: me on top, but I wouldn't mind a bit more variety
    "I said what I meant and I meant what I said, an elephant's faithful 100%" Dr. Seuss, Horton Hatches The Egg. My Ovulation Chart Ttc buddies with LexiMS!
  • Today is CD13 or something and I am still effing bleeding. I also took Femara so I should ovulate, but I don't know what the chances are if I'm still shedding my lining. I asked the RE and he didn't really answer my question (it was via email... I need to call).

    3T ruined sex for me. I don't enjoy it unless I'm drunk.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • Sorry that I'm so late this week! It's been a crazy one! UPDATES: AF started last Saturday. DH is camping with his guy friends when I'm supposed to O this cycle, so I think I'm officially done with the supplements and monitoring trial. :( If only things could have been that easy, right? I have my follow-up appointment with the new RE this Thursday, since having 30ish vials of blood drawn in the past 3 weeks. Really really hoping this gives us some answers or at least a planned timeline for IVF this summer. 

    QOTW: pretty much anything from the back, although I can't stay there for very long ;)

    @abt8113 -GL with the Clomid this cycle. I never had any issues on it, so hoping for the same for you! 


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • So, sorry for being MIA for a few months - I posted maybe 5 months back a lot but have been extremely busy with work and my husband's landscaping company. As an update --

     

    DH has been getting more used to the idea of having a baby. It still sucks to not be exactly on the same page but at least now he is comfortable with talking about it and even brings things up himself sometimes which really blows my mind ;) We have discussed names, what we would do for childcare, and a few other things. Countdown to having a "big serious talk" in 4 months!! So we will see where we are then, I think its going to come down to finances and how his company is going, which is growing at super warp speed atm.

     

    Savings is going well. We recently bought my MIL's old SUV for me to drive because she bought a new one, and DH sold the truck I was driving which put a few more dollars in the old coffee can so to speak:) So I'm happy about that.

    To sum up, again I am so sorry ladies for the lapse - I think I just needed some time away for awhile and I REALLY know you all understand that.<3 I hope to still be involved in this board because a few months ago it was a lifeline for me for awhile when things were more difficult!! 

    Also- Next Monday I'm going to my annual exam with a new doctor an hour away with better healthcare and is an OB/GYN. A little nervous but I plan to bring genetic history, questions, etc. Hopefully everything checks out - I am hopeful.

    <3 to all and Best -Barefootbluejean

    my furbabies:)
    Me, 25 DH, 27 -Been waiting for DH to be on board for TTC since August 2013...
    I Will Worship While I'm Waiting http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6X71sXagUY  

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    ~*~Missing my angel baby sister http://www.lisanotes.com/infant-loss/~*~

  • Hi @barefootbluejean204,

    Welcome back! 

    Just an FYI, this is the 3T (Trouble Trying To Conceive) check-in. Please feel free to read the original post above for more info. It looks like you may be in the TTA (Trying to Abstain) camp right now, and I think those ladies have started their own weekly check-in, although I don't remember which day. 

    Hope that helps!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • **beep beep!**. Just driving by to say hi, hugs, and thinking of you ladies!! <3. Sending good vibes, and heart healing vibes, and happy vibes to all of you.
    Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007
    2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.
    RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds:  BFNs 12/12-2/13
    IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13

    ~My Bitter Bitches Be the Best~

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