May 2012 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
would you be offended...
...if you were quite pregnant and people didn't notice or ask?
Here's why I ask. This mom at work just had a baby like 2 weeks ago, and I had no idea she was pregnant. Ok, I had a small hunch, but not a strong enough hunch that I could even get away with asking the kids if they were gonna be a big sister any time soon. The last time I saw the mom was probably 2.5 months ago, and she was always wearing big winter coats, so that was probably hiding any pregnant belly she had. But all of a sudden, she has a baby. Like the stork delivered it. My co-worker (who has two kids) said she felt bad for never mentioning anything, but I didn't cuz I wasn't willing to take the risk. But I've never been pregnant either. And I have been asked if I was pregnant before. Nope just fat, thanks for noticing.
So what do you think? Would you be offended if you were that mom, pregnant for nine months and we are all shocked that there's a baby? Or not cuz it's worse to be wrong?
Here's why I ask. This mom at work just had a baby like 2 weeks ago, and I had no idea she was pregnant. Ok, I had a small hunch, but not a strong enough hunch that I could even get away with asking the kids if they were gonna be a big sister any time soon. The last time I saw the mom was probably 2.5 months ago, and she was always wearing big winter coats, so that was probably hiding any pregnant belly she had. But all of a sudden, she has a baby. Like the stork delivered it. My co-worker (who has two kids) said she felt bad for never mentioning anything, but I didn't cuz I wasn't willing to take the risk. But I've never been pregnant either. And I have been asked if I was pregnant before. Nope just fat, thanks for noticing.
So what do you think? Would you be offended if you were that mom, pregnant for nine months and we are all shocked that there's a baby? Or not cuz it's worse to be wrong?
Re: would you be offended...
I wouldn’t be offended. I would be like you and never say anything till the person says something. My dance teacher was prett visible pregnant right away, she is so tiny she popped right away but no one dare said anything to her until she said something. Its up to the mother to decide who to tell and who not to tell.
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