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This is just me venting.The car had been violently shaking the last two times we took it out. Fortunately we really only need to use it once or twice a month. H needed to go to his home town for a family hockey tournoment this weekend. On the way home he blew a tire and now has to get it towed back, a new tire, new rim and obviously whatever the shaking was needs to be looked into ASAP. We were set to pay off another SL Thursday but obviously not now.
We agreed on the phone tonight that if it is going to cost over $1,500 to fix not including the tow we need to get rid of the car and get something newer. We have no money saved for a new car because we SWORE we were going to get another 12 months out of it. I am really stressed that we aren't better prepared for this and now we are looking at a car loan on top of our SL debt. We have been lucky to have 11 months of sever snowballing with no interruption so I am not taking this well.
Murphy's Law in effect. Just like Dave Ramsey warned me about! Haha.

Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Re: Stressed over the car
We do drive the car once a week right now we just don't have to. So at least if we had to go carless for awhile we could find other ways around for a few weeks.
H just called to say the tow truck is on its way out to get it. I guess we will know the damage in a few hours. Hopefully It is going to cost much less than we are predicting and we wont have any other issues!
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Whats the point in paying off debt if your just going to sign up for more.... Dave Ramsey doesn't warn you against murphy - he warns you against car loans. Buy another beater. Especially with the little amount you drive it.
But regardless whatever you do, don't buy a new car. They are the biggest money suckers. I bought a new 2011 car 3 years ago for 22k - financed at 360 per month. Now 3 years later and its worth 10 or 11k tops. I'd be lucky to get back what i owe on it. I lost 12k in 3 years plus interest is 13k. Don't buy a car any newer then 2 years old. New cars lose 60% of their value in the first 4 years. a year ago my car was worth not much more then its worth now so you lose value slower after 2 years. Never making that mistake again. Oh yea and my husbands car we bought used with 20k miles on it - 2 years old. We paid 14k and the exact same new one was going for 22k dollars. 20k miles is not worth 8k dollars no matter how you pay for it.
I'm going to agree with Katie. Don't go into more debt. What's the point in focusing on paying off student loans, just to take out a car loan?
Either pay to fix this car or buy another beater until the SL debt is gone and you can save up to buy a newer car.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

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I disagree with this- they want to TTC in less than a year. Get a car that's reliable and safe for you and your future family. You'll need to go to the doctor's a lot when you're pregnant and the first year for your LO. From what I remember, you guys are in good financial shape.. sure it's a set back, but sometimes things like that happen. GL with whatever you decide!
There are some safe beaters out there. You can easily get a Buick Lesabre for under $5k. Those run forever, have amazing safety ratings, and an engine that isn't overly complicated so doesn't have costly repairs. There's also anything from Honda or Toyota that usually has good safety ratings. She also stated that it is only used once or twice a month. That makes a huge difference when it comes to having a car payment on a vehicle that is barely used.
Yes, safety is important. I'm not saying at all that safety isn't. But do your research on cars. There are many out there that are "safe" that don't involve $15k in debt and a $300/month payment.
Also, if the student loan debt will be paid off before TTC, then why not focus on building the Efund, then savings for a newer car while TTC. Then you could purchase a better/safer/newer car at that time with cash.
Yes at the time $1,500 sounds like a lot in car repairs. But $1,500 split up over the course of 12 months is $125/month. That's still cheaper than a car payment on a vehicle that is only used twice a month. Instead do this math....if you buy a car with a payment of $200/month to only use it 2 times in a month. Then it costs you $100 each time you drive that car. On top of the regular maintenance, gas, and the added expense of full coverage insurance because it has a loan.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Dave Ramsey does warn about Murphy's Law in his book. He claims by being prepared it wont be as big of a deal when something happens and he thinks it prevents it(which I disagree with).
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015