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Change of plans...

I had a discussion with DH last night and we have decided that we are officially putting a hold on TTC for the rest of the year. I guess that technically puts us in the NTNP camp. Neither of us is happy about it but we agree it is probably for the best right now. I've been tracking my cycles and symptoms of AF since I got off BCP in August and the more I research and read, the more sure I have become that I am annovulatory. I haven't had the official blood work done to confirm it yet but multiple factors are leading me to believe ovulation just isn't happening.

I asked you guys yesterday about moving from an obgyn to an RE and it definitely made me realize that I will be wasting money if I start infetility treatment with my obgyn. I love her as my gyno and she is very well informed about PCOS but moving forward with getting pregnant is going to have to be with an RE. Unfortunately, the nearest RE is over an hour away and getting to appointments there just wouldn't be possible with my work schedule.

We've been talking about moving for a fews years now and just decided a few months ago that we will be moving around the beginning of next year. We will be moving to a much larger city. I've done a few quick web searches and have discovered multiple RE options in that area. Once we move, I will make an appointment with an RE to get further testing done. I was originally going to request an HSG and pelvic u/s from my current obgyn in May when I go see her but now I am just going to talk to her about my PCOS and my continuing treatment with that. I'm going to spend the rest of this year really focusing on my weight loss. Who knows...maybe my body will decide to get its shit together once I lose weight. I'm not counting on it but it's always a possibility, I guess.

Not gonna lie though...I cried after our decision last night. It was an ugly cry too. I think it was partly because of our decision but also just frustration with my body and its inability to do what should come naturally. I've known since I was a teen that my cycles weren't normal so it wasn't a surprise when my cycles didn't regulate off BCP. I actually thought that it would be easier to deal with disapointment in TTC since I was going in knowing I had issues...but it's been really hard, regardless.

So yeah, that's where I am now.

P.S.- I ordered a bunch of Wondfo pregnancy tests a few months back and I won't be using them now so they are up for grabs if anyone wants them. I can't remember exactly how many I have but I think it's at least a couple dozen. They expire in January, if I remember correctly. If anyone shows any interest, I can update with the exact number later today when I get home.



Me: PCOS and Hypothyroidism.
Currently on Metformin and Synthroid
BFP: 10.7.14
EDD: 6.15.15

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Re: Change of plans...

  • ((hugs)) I'm glad y'all were able to talk it through and come to a decision, even though I know it sucks. I hope the rest of the year flies by for you!

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • Hopefully the rest of the year will put you in a better place both physically and emotionally with this journey. Good luck.
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
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  • I can't imagine how hard that conversation must have been and the emotions behind it, but I'm hopeful this year will fly by! Sending you good vibes and happy thoughts.
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • Making the decision to hold off TTC is a hard one, but hopefully you'll feel better about it soon.  I was really disappointed and upset about it when we first made the decision, and I still feel that way at times.  But, I'm glad that we are on a break right now.  It's given me time to get myself healthy and happy, and focus on other things in my life that I was neglecting because all of my energy was put towards having a baby.  I think you are looking at the whole picture and determining what the best thing to do is, even though it's difficult.  Hang in there and I hope this break gives you everything you need.
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  • I can't imagine how hard that conversation had to be. I hope that it will lead to good things. 
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • I'm sorry that you had to come to this conclusion, but hopefully it will all be for the best! Any kind of difficulty TTC regardless is hard, when that's what you want.

    I would love to take the tests of your hands if no one wants them. Again, I'm so sorry that you had to make this decision and are dealing with this.
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  • I am sorry :-(  I know that is a tough decision to make, but it is good that you are both on the same page.  Hopefully the year goes by quickly!
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    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • I'm so sorry chica. :( 3T/IF is by far one of the hardest things that I have ever had to deal with personally, so I completely understand your struggles. I am so hopeful for you though that with getting yourself in a good place healthwise that even if you aren't able to get preggers naturally, it will put you in a better place when you do start moving forward with an RE. FX that you won't need them though! We're here for you, girl!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I'm so sorry you even had to have the conversation. ((Hugs))
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
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  • I'm very sorry this is where you guys are right now. That is an awfully difficult decision to make, but it sounds like you thought about it long and hard and it will be for the best in the long run. I know that doesn't make the emotions easier to deal with now, though. 
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    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • I'm sorry you've had to make this decision.  :-(

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • I'm sorry this was a conversation you had to have.

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  • I'm sorry you're going through this, but glad you and YH seem to be on the same page and can support each other. It sucks... there's really no other way to put it. We're here for you. ((hugs))
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  • Good luck with your weight loss and the move.
    Married 2011.
    Baby Boy 2015.
  • I'm sorry you two had to make such a tough decision. I hope the next several months go by in a flash!

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • Thank you, everyone...I truly appreciate all the support! I'm feeling better about it with each passing hour. I have so many things to work on in the next few months so I am hopeful that time really will fly by.

    And I'm excited that I can continue to be hang around here and support all of you wonderful ladies!

    @abt8113 : I sent you a message about the tests!



    Me: PCOS and Hypothyroidism.
    Currently on Metformin and Synthroid
    BFP: 10.7.14
    EDD: 6.15.15

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  • I'm so sorry you reached that point and had to make that decision. :(
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  • I'm sorry you had to make such a difficult decision. ((Hugs))

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