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WTMF (pr not me)

There is a woman I work with, and I can't fucking stand her. She is trash.

She is pregnant. With natural twins. And she's due around my due date. What the mother fucking hell is going on!?
TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
3T<3

Re: WTMF (pr not me)

  • Ugh the WORST. I would be crazy too. ((Hugs)).

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Ugh. The worst.
    Married - 12/14/13
    TTA until June - then it's on :)
  • That sucks. Sorry poppies.
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  • starstruckxostarstruckxo member
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    edited April 2014
    Ugh! Similar call here (but not nearly as frustrating as your news *hug*). My mom just called to tell me that an old friend's trashy daughter is pregnant. Literally. Called 3 minutes ago. Wtmf indeed. 
    Married - 12/14/13
    TTA until June - then it's on :)
  • I'm so sorry, Poppies.  WTMF, indeed.  
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    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • Yup. I have some trashy pg FB "friends". Ugggh.
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  • It's fucking bullshit is what it is. Can't anything in life be fair? ((Hugs))
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    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

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    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • That is bull! I'm so sorry
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • poppies717poppies717 member
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    edited April 2014
    Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. I threw a dead plant off my porch. The good news is my dept head knows what I'm going through and won't make me do hall duty (girl is in same hall).

    FFC: she has a health issue that will complicate this pg. I hope she is on bed rest starting tomorrow. I hope everything works out and she and babies are healthy, but it would be awesome if she was on doc ordered bed rest at 8 weeks so I wouldn't have to see her. Again, I hope this pg is a healthy one for her and her babies. I want to make that crystal clear. ETA: like, doc orders her to lay in bed cruising internet and eating bon bons bed rest.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • :(. That's a shitty deal :( sorry poppies.
    Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007
    2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.
    RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds:  BFNs 12/12-2/13
    IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13

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  • So sorry! I had this recently with a coworker who had a long extensive convo with me about how she was so scared that she would not be able to get pg when she was pg at the time and knew about it.
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  • I'm sorry you're going through such a difficult time, Poppies.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • Aimothy said:


    abt8113 said:

    So sorry! I had this recently with a coworker who had a long extensive convo with me about how she was so scared that she would not be able to get pg when she was pg at the time and knew about it.

    Oh. I would not be talking to that bitch again.

    Do we work at the same place? I would not put it past this classless ho I work with.

    A drink to you, because I've had too much already. DH poured me a glass before I ate dinner. I finished two before eating. Shit.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • And abt, I'm sorry you had to deal with that. ((Hugs))
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • Of course she is...Ugh, I'm sorry. :(

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  • I'm sorry poppies :-( hugs

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    Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN
                                  Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13
                          IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13
            Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz
         
  • jt305jt305 member
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    I feel ya!  I work with a girl next door who is due two days after my due date would have been.  To top it off, she already holds her belly, complains that "the baby" is always hungry, and eating pickle-flavored potato chips in my office...did I mention she is only 11 weeks?!  It's going to be a long pregnancy.  Freaking sucks--Rant over--sending thoughts your way, girl! 

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    TTC since Jan 2014
    BFP: 1/14; spontaneous m/c at 6w
  • I went through this with someone who was pg with twins due around my 3rd due date. She was feeling "kicks" at 8 weeks and even had the nerve to ask me about pg advice and if she could borrow my maternity clothes.

    Some people.....

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • I went through this with someone who was pg with twins due around my 3rd due date. She was feeling "kicks" at 8 weeks and even had the nerve to ask me about pg advice and if she could borrow my maternity clothes.

    Some people.....

    Gross. That is super insensitive. Throat punch to her.

    I told a mutual friend to tell this girl about our loss and when we were due. I hope she can find it within her dark soul to be gentle and not AWish, but my hopes are not high.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • I'm so sorry, Poppies. That's not fair. :(

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    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • I went through this with someone who was pg with twins due around my 3rd due date. She was feeling "kicks" at 8 weeks and even had the nerve to ask me about pg advice and if she could borrow my maternity clothes.

    Some people.....

    Oh my! I would have punched her in the face! That is just stupidity!
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    Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"

  • I'm so sorry Poppies.  I really hope the mutual friend can get some sort of sense into her head to be mindful and sensitive.

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • UGH!! The universe seriously effing sucks sometimes. I hope you don't have to deal with her much (if at all).
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    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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