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Yesterday I got 2 Punches Right In the Uterus!! Hooray!
Sorry in advance if this sounds whiny but my uterus is still recovering from getting punched.
Yesterday I got home from work to an invitation for the AW pregnant "friend". Remember she's the one who stole my gender reveal among other things? Well, I had told her when we talked CBH years ago that I wanted guests at my shower to each create a square on fabric as an activity to turn into a baby quilt. So guess what it says at the bottom of the invitation? DramaMama would love a baby quilt - come prepared to decorate your own square for baby DramaMama!!
What. The. Fuck. Tom felt bad for me but was trying to be diplomatic and said "Well you know that she holds you in high regard and imitation is the sincerest form of flattery... BLAH BLAH FUCKING BLAH!! I felt sucker punched!!
To make matters worse, we went with my BIL and his girlfriend to Chilis for dinner. Five minutes after we sit down, in walks my ex, the one I lived with prior to Tom. He was my only other serious relationship besides Tom, and things didn't end well for us, he ended things with me because of extenuating circumstances and the last thing he ever said to me was "I love you and I know you will always be the one that got away." I haven't seen him in years. ANYWAY, in he walks with a girl, sits down in the booth RIGHT next to us, totally makes eye contact with me. There's a little girl with them, his little doppleganger. And the girl he is with is pregnant.
I wanted to cry but I didn't. I still feel sad, I don't know why.
Uggghhhhhhh.
Sorry again for the dark cloud that is me today.
Cheering on all of my 3T ladies! DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI
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Re: Yesterday I got 2 Punches Right In the Uterus!! Hooray!
08/13: Started TTC - 07/14: PCOS dx
BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
I'm so sorry Amanda.
Did you end up saying anything to your Ex?
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625
In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!
T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.
Second, I'm sorry about the ex situation. It hurts because you always wonder, "Would that have been me?" Just remember that you got Tom out of the deal....:)
Baby Boy born 5.3.15
dx: Unexplained IF (mild MFI)
TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist Protocol:24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
C.J. born 01/09/15
You should start giving Drama Mama really awful ideas but talk them up as if you think they are the most brilliant idea you ever had. Steal that biznitch!
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
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DramaMama seriously needs to grow up and get her own ideas. Or at least freaking TALK to you about using your ideas before she just steals them!
And running into your ex like that? I'd have lost it. You're a stronger woman than I am for holding yourself together in the restaurant.
Huge squishy ((hugs)). I hope the rest of the week gets better.
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
"I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you. I know you're bitter. I get it. But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
Baby Boy born 5.3.15
~TTC Buddies with akcrrr and amandaf6383~
Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP! Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64 Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
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TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad spermSorry Amanda.
To be fair, you do have really great ideas though!
Not that I'm planning to steal them, nor do I think that pregger AW should either.
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
And everything Aimothy said.
Sending love to you. You don't deserve any of this.
B Born 6.27.13