October 2012 Weddings
PattySmith101
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problem!
so my cousin is getting married in October (best month ever i know). the problem isnt my own! her fiance wanted to have his nephews in the wedding but she felt you couldnt have a rb without a flower girl! her sisters are younger than her and have no kids. in fact the only kids in her family are my nieces and nephews so she decided instead of asking one of the girls she would ask them all < but only the girls which excludes my nephews ... i dont understand her reasoning about not wanting to leave someone out but then asking only the girls but any way that's not even the problem that's just the back story! oh by the way i have 11 nieces and nephews on my side of our family! only 4 of them are boys < 1 boy and 1 girl will also probably not be coming to the wedding they live far away> 2 of the girls will be flower girls and the other 4 will be junior BMs
here's the problem ( which i really am fighting saying i told ya so to my sister by the way cause i saw this coming 1000000 miles away... in fact i talked to my cousin about it before she asked the kids and she talked to the parents again about it before asking the kids but my sister said yes they could even though she was worried about the cost back then ) my sister has 3 girls all of them are supposed to be JR BM!< they are 13, 11, and 6 so its not like the dresses would ever be able to be used again either > the dresses my cousin picked are going to cost $200 each plus $75 for alterations- then they need shoes/ hair accessories etc etc etc ! now she is upset its gonna cost over $1000 for her girls to be in the wedding and she wants to take them out but she is worried my aunt will get mad at her!
i know she already said yes and should not pull them from the wedding but its alot of $$$. the flower girls are going to get their dresses at a department store (way cheaper then $275 for a dress ) what advice do you think i can give her? would you be mad if she pulled them from your wedding? the 2 older girls are not at all happy when wearing dresses either < not girly girls at all!
here's the problem ( which i really am fighting saying i told ya so to my sister by the way cause i saw this coming 1000000 miles away... in fact i talked to my cousin about it before she asked the kids and she talked to the parents again about it before asking the kids but my sister said yes they could even though she was worried about the cost back then ) my sister has 3 girls all of them are supposed to be JR BM!< they are 13, 11, and 6 so its not like the dresses would ever be able to be used again either > the dresses my cousin picked are going to cost $200 each plus $75 for alterations- then they need shoes/ hair accessories etc etc etc ! now she is upset its gonna cost over $1000 for her girls to be in the wedding and she wants to take them out but she is worried my aunt will get mad at her!
i know she already said yes and should not pull them from the wedding but its alot of $$$. the flower girls are going to get their dresses at a department store (way cheaper then $275 for a dress ) what advice do you think i can give her? would you be mad if she pulled them from your wedding? the 2 older girls are not at all happy when wearing dresses either < not girly girls at all!
Re: problem!
The only people who did pay were my 2 friends.