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are blackout shades a good idea or a bad idea in a nursery. my MIL was giving me hell about it because the baby will never be able to sleep anywhere except a completely dark room if I get them....but I can't imagine i'd have the shades pulled 24/7
so what do you think?
blackout shades 32 votes
yes, def get blackout shades
eh, it probably doesn't matter either way
Re: blackout shades
Here is my 2 cents. I voted yes because when DS was a newborn, he would wake up with sun. When we got blackouts for our room, he slept for another 2 hours - amazing. However, we don't have them in his room, so for his whole life, he's napped during the day in a room that isn't dark. He also naps in the car no prob.
What I'm finding now is that with the time change, it isn't dark at bedtime and at 2 years old he thinks its party time at 7 when it is actually bedtime. If we weren't moving, I'd install blackouts in his room NOW to get him to settle at bedtime and sleep longer in the morning. I think it's worth doing a blackout because even with a blackout, it's difficult to achieve a totally dark room during the day.
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And now they are a lifesaver with Delilah. We put her down at 7:30-8:00 and it's still light outside. She has a mindset that you can't sleep when the sun is out because that's daytime and not nighttime. She reprimanded me this weekend when I slept in until 8 because the sun was up and it was daytime, so obviously she has pretty strong feelings about it - haha. I don't think we'd get her down without them now.
And it's not that she can't sleep in light places (she naps just fine at daycare everyday), it's just she equates sun to day and the moon to night and sleep, so if she can't see the light from the sun at night all is good.
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