October 2012 Weddings
mrshall1027
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Vent
**Sorry this turned out to be kinda long**
So, I have this friend that I've known for 7-8 years or so. She was in my wedding and we were really close up until I met H. When I met H, she just kind of distanced herself and got really upset that we weren't hanging out as much as we used to. We actually got into a pretty big fight about it and didn't speak for almost a year. Then about 9 months before my wedding, she messaged me saying that she wanted to put everything behind us and start hanging out again. We went to dinner and I found out she was pregnant. She said that she really needed me during that time and that she missed our friendship. Of course I was super happy for her and we kind of got back to how things used to be.
Everything was fine up until after my wedding. I would call her and she wouldn't call me back and if I didn't make the effort to reach out to her, I never talked to her. It's been like this since and I've seen her maybe a handful of times. I thought it was because she had a new baby and was busy with him, but then I started seeing all these FB posts of check ins and hanging out with other people. She never invites me to do anything with her, I can't even remember the last time she called or texted me. The most I'll get is a random comment on photos or status updates on FB. I even called her earlier this year in tears about all the IF issues we've been going through and she apologized about not being there for me and that she was a bad friend. But, has anything changed... no.
I think I've reached my limit and I'm holding back from going off on her. The more I think about, the more pissed off I get. I invited her to H's birthday party and called her last week to see if she was coming. She said yes, but that she was going to come early because she had another party to go to in the evening. We even said it was going to be great to see each other and I said how excited I was to see her son (who I've seen 3-4 times and he'll be 2 in July). Well, guess what. She never showed up, didn't even text or call. I'm beyond upset and hurt. Who treats a friend like that?
I texted her earlier "So, what happened on Saturday?" and I haven't heard anything back. I really just want to call her and go off, but I know that won't do any good. But, I seriously am so pissed! What would y'all do?
Re: Vent
I know a few people like this. I get really sick of being the one to always organize hanging out. Usually, I'll just let it go and see if they ever contact me about hanging out.