Relationships
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I recently moved to a new state with my DH. It's not very far from where we lived before...about one hour, hour and 15 with traffic. Still I think the idea of me being in a different state is deterring my friends from visiting. I should mention, we live very close to a train station so even those that don't have cars could get here within 2 hours. I am feeling kind of lonely and getting anxious that I'm going to not be invited to things as much, or get forgotten about cause I'm so "far away".

Plus it doesn't seem very easy to meet new people here, because it's so much more secluded than NYC.

I'm especially frustrated because I've tried for the past month to get my best friend to come visit. She just got married two months ago and I was her maid of honor. I busted my ass for her wedding, had to organize (and pay) for a big portion of the bridal shower, bachelorette, and also made a lot of special things for the wedding. Basically I feel like I really went above and beyond for her special day, and now it's like impossible to get her to come see our new place. I feel like there's always an excuse. I don't get invited to things she's doing in the city because "oh, I didn't think you'd be able to get here in time". Geez, all I need is like a day's notice! I don't know if I should tell her that I'm feeling a little hurt or maybe she's just in her newlywed phase and isn't making much time for friends. I am trying to have faith that our friendship is solid, but it would be nice to talk a bit more often. I feel like I"m making the effort to keep in touch but she isn't.
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