Is there anything?

tooquick1 · March 2014

That you wish your s/o was better at in the sack?

Is there a area where you wish your were better at yourself?

tooquick1 · March 2014

For me my user name gives it all away...lol

schuette2 · March 2014

I wish I could last longer on top, but I'm out of shape and my legs give out quickly. I also wish I could shut the voice in my head up that always tells me I'd freak my husband out if I tried whatever popped in my head at the time. It seems I get a new idea, and something in my head goes "Nooo, he'll think you're weird."

DH is beyond phenomenal - no complaints!

tooquick1 · March 2014

I wish my wife was more comfortable with her body. She is very self conscious about her weight so when we make love she no longer wants me to perform oral on her.
I have told her that I do not care about how much she weighs....She said that she cares so that is why she does not want me to go south with the mouth :-(

schuette2 · April 2014

That's a woman thing. I haven't weighed myself in at least two years, but the last time I did, I came in at 119, and I still have issues with my weight. I don't like my thighs or my stomach, or my ass, but I also don't do anything about it.

Try working out with her, change your diets together, and maybe that'll change.

crimsonsaffron · April 2014

I have a sensitive area that makes certain positions very painful and sometimes penetration is impossible - I wish I could address that problem (I've seen two doctors and a psychologist, but ultimately I'm not comfortable with the treatment they suggest).

My fiance is an amazing lover. We're sometimes very calm and loving, other times we're all over one another and very active, and I love the way he touches me. If there is one thing, though, I wish that sometimes he would be more present to the moment and really look at me - really look at my body or look at my eyes. We have a very strong and healthy emotional bond, but he's not sentimental so sometimes we miss that opportunity to connect.

doeydo · April 2014

tooquick1 said:

I wish my wife was more comfortable with her body. She is very self conscious about her weight so when we make love she no longer wants me to perform oral on her.
I have told her that I do not care about how much she weighs....She said that she cares so that is why she does not want me to go south with the mouth :-(

Maybe you two could try couple's counselling and/or sex therapy.

j3ffsgirl · April 2014

Life without oral sex? Oh my! I personally love it, but know a lot of women are uncomfortable with it. I agree with PP, it is a chick thing. Even at your best, you always wonder if your SO is looking at your thighs giggling, or if this position makes me look fat! You need to get her on a treadmill ASAP! Don't let her do this to herself! She's only going to become more self conscious as time goes on. Oh and schuette2 are you freaking kidding me? Your self conscious at 119 lbs? Ugh. I wish I had that problem!

schuette2 · April 2014

Yes, but as we both said - it's a chick thing. Since I spend most of my days in front of a computer, stressing about homework or projects, if I'll get the job after the Master's, etc, I don't spend much time jogging around the neighborhood like I should, so I'm gaining my problem areas back - problem areas I inherited from dad's side, and I'm not a fan of having my ass look like a caboose soon. I need to do something. And that weight is what is on my driver's license. I'm in the 120's somewhere now. I think the gyno scale said 126 in February.

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