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Very new to this, need help!
Hi ladies! My husband and I are both freelancers living in NYC, so we don't have normal salaries and the cost of living is super high. With that said, we are finally looking into starting some sort of retirement fund through our bank. I know NOTHING about finances so I figured we would go talk to someone there to figure out our best course of action. My question is, how do you pick what type of fund your money goes into? Some are higher risk than others? And would the banker take advantage or steer us in the wrong direction to benefit themselves in any way? Again, we are extremely new to this and our parents all had 401K's through work, so they don't know much about what we're doing either. Any advice would be much appreciated, thanks!
Re: Very new to this, need help!
I will say two more things. I also use Fidelity and have met with someone there in person. It was free, they explained a lot, and I never felt pressured. They DID recommend a Fidelity fund, but I didn't feel like it was for the wrong reasons.
One other option I'll mention is target date funds. These funds are based on the date you'll retire, and would be the only fund in your account. They naturally adjust your risk based on how far away from retirement you are. I don't use them because I find picking on my own interesting, and they tend to have higher expenses, but many others like them because they're simple.
Don't go through a bank- they are there to make money- not help you. They will likely push you into something thats good for them and not so good for you. Go through a solid investor that will guide you into making the right investments based on your individual situation.
And open a Roth IRA- you put money in after taxes instead of before taxes - so in 30 years when you go to pull it out you aren't taxed on it. Its better to be taxed on 5,000 then it is to be taxed on 5 million.