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Tell me about your first time meeting a Nestie (gtg).

This Saturday I will be meeting my first internet Nestie friend! My babies are turning one (whaattttt) and she's driving to come visit!

I'm nervous I'll be too busy at the party to chat it up and she'll think I'm lame.

Tell me how your first gtg went. Where was it? Were you nervous? Was she like you pictured her to be? Did your online friendship change after you met IRL?

:)

TTC 10/2010 DX with PCOS 01/2012 Metformin 05/12. Clomid 07/12 50mg- Bust,no response. 8/12 100mg 0 on CD20=BFP. 9/24-56 9/26-125 10/1-2100 B/G Twins, EDD 05/2013 "It's funny they give you a drug to help get you pregnant, but it makes me not want to have sex with you" -DH. Lilypie Pregnancy tickers

Re: Tell me about your first time meeting a Nestie (gtg).

  • liall09liall09 member
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    edited April 2014
    I met up with a few old GPMers ( @Kaiene, @rockstarpuos and @ke19 ) while traveling in their area last May. It was a lot of fun. Since then I had the chance to meet up with @MRads and will hopefully be meeting up with some other old regs in July when I'm traveling to visit my brother. ETA: I think I've gotten closer to at least a couple of them since meeting up. Kaiene and I chat virtually every day now.
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  • I first met up with a Knottie from my local board when she was in town (I wasn't actually local to my wedding board). We went out for drinks and chatted for a while. We're not local to each other though, so we didn't meet up a second time.

    I met a former GP'er (princessleah) first at the RE. Then I invited her and her husband to a party we were having at our house in the fall. I donated my leftover meds to her (she's now almost in her third tri!). She just recently moved even closer to our neighborhood and we've been trying to get together for dinner but coordinating schedules hasn't been easy. Soon hopefully!





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • I met Shazzie at Disney World a couple of years ago.  I was SO nervous!  She was awesome.  We def. got closer, but we don't chat as much anymore, though we see each other on FB.  Since then, I've met quite a few ladies from GP and TB.  A chick from my BMB lives right down the street! 
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  • I met a couple knotties when I was out in Tucson for work. We met at a tiki bar, and had dinner/drinks. It was pretty nice since we had all 'known' each other for a year at that point. I haven't been back out there so I haven't seen them, but we've kept up with each other on fb.

    I've met quite a few Nesties, some from GP. some from NBC. I've traveled with a couple of the NBC girls, and I chat with them almost every day. I'd love to meet more of my online friends, but life has been a bit busy lately.

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  • I met some of my local nesties several years ago at a starbucks. it was kind of awkward at first, but quickly it was normal to be around each other and to chat with each other like we do online. I'm still friends with them today and one of them has become my IRL best friend.
  • amccul20 said:

    I met some of my local nesties several years ago at a starbucks. it was kind of awkward at first, but quickly it was normal to be around each other and to chat with each other like we do online. I'm still friends with them today and one of them has become my IRL best friend.

    We've actually met one of the same nesties...Mana
    I saw her tagged on FB in one of your shower pics!





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • I met some girls from my BMB at the zoo, then we met again at the park for a picnic.  Everyone was super nice and it wasn't as awkward as I feared it would be. One girl seemed a lot shyer than her online persona, but other than that they were pretty much similar to how I pictured.  And I don't think it really changed how I interacted with them online. 

    I also met someone from the nest when we were on vacation for dinner, drinks and ice cream.  Again, we had a good time.  Have fun!

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  • I met some of my local nesties several years ago at a starbucks. it was kind of awkward at first, but quickly it was normal to be around each other and to chat with each other like we do online. I'm still friends with them today and one of them has become my IRL best friend.
    We've actually met one of the same nesties...Mana I saw her tagged on FB in one of your shower pics!
    @looneylife mana is one of my besties!! I love that chick:)
  • LooneyLifeLooneyLife member
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    edited April 2014
    @amccul20 She's awesome! We were on the same local wedding board.

    ETA: knot board not bump, duh





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • I met a few Pets board Nesties a few years ago for a potluck GTG. It was nice, and we keep in touch via FB (there's a group and most are my FB friends). We should really gtg more often considering we all live fairly close to one another.

    I also dogsat for another Pets Nestie a couple of years ago while she and her family went to Disney. She's another FB friend, but I honestly feel closer to her dogs than I do to her, hahaha.
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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • I've met a few- there are 4 of us from my wedding month board who live close enough to meet in the middle for lunch every once in a while. The first lunch was not long after our weddings so we had plenty to talk about.

    I've also met some amazing GP ladies- had a delicious dinner with them last August, maybe?

    As far as I know it has always worked out :) i love meeting people IRL. I think it helps build the relationships!

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    After 2 years of TTC, lots of tests, and a Hysteroscopy/Laparoscopy to remove several polyps,
    Clomid/IUI #1 3/14: cancelled due to surprise BFP 3/8/14.
    Beta 1 3/11: 398  Beta 2 3/13: 728  Beta 3 3/20: 11,482 
    Surprise BFP turns into Surprise Twins! 

    Zoey and Garrett born 10/24/14 at 36+3


     

  • I'm so excited!! And I'm a little nervous too, I haven't met anyone on here yet either, but I promise I won't think you are lame. I don't have the expectation that you need to entertain me the entire time, I know you will be busy. So no worries. Lol :)



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  • I've only met @brij2006, but she was awesome.
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    TTC Since May 2011
    DX: Subclinical Hypothyroidism
    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • I met @barbbhow last August and I adored her. Seriously one of the sweetest people I've ever met. I can't wait to meet a few more in October and at least two others are only about 2 hours from me so we're working on that.


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  • I met the ones who are in my siggy. 

    We all met at a restaurant.  It was a couple years ago, so I don't remember too many details, but I do remember that I was wondering how we'd know who was who.  Like would we introduce ourselves as our screen names?  Things didn't really change (at least from my perspective) on-line other than just now knowing what they all looked like and who they were IRL.  We still get together semi-regularly.
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    DX: MFI
    IUI#1 8/2012: BFN
    IUI#2 9/2012: BFN
    IUI#3 10/2012: BFN
    IVF#1 (2 embryos transferred) 1/2013: BFN
    IVF#2 (2 embryos transferred) 5/2013: BFP!!!  EDD 1/24/14
    Beta 1 (5/17) - 66.8 Beta 2 (5/21) - 341 Beta 3 (5/27) - 2771
    1st u/s 6/7 - measuring right on track at 7 weeks with 144 bpm!
    1/20/14 - Our sweet girl joined our family!
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  • I have met a lot of the people from my local board from The Knot.  And some from my wedding month board from The Knot.  I have never met anyone from GP though :-(
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    TTC since June 2011 dx: PCOS
    Clomid+IUI: Cancelled b/c didn't respond (June 2012)
    Femara+Trigger+IUI #1: BFN :-( (July 2013)
    Natural Cycle (8/7/13)- BFP!  Beta #1 (9/10/13): 509 Progesterone: 18.64  Beta #2 (9/12/13): 1118
    Baby N born 5/9/14
  • I am jealous of all the GTGs!

    @bobcee and @Cinderin I think we should plan a meet up at Woodland Park Zoo here soon since the weather is getting "nicer" :)
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  • Also jealous of all the GTGs. I met a few local people from The Knot but never any Nesties which is sad because I'm way more active on The Nest than I was on The Knot.
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  • @wiggyslilsis - I would totally be up for that.  We're members so we can also each (my H and I) get two extra guests in at half price each time.  And kids under 3 are free.

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  • Oh that would be awesome @bobcee

    I am pretty sure @Cinderin has a membership as well.

    It is about a 2 hour drive for us but I know LO would love it and I would love to meet up.
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  • I am jealous of all the GTGs!

    @bobcee and @Cinderin I think we should plan a meet up at Woodland Park Zoo here soon since the weather is getting "nicer" :)

    For sure!!!
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    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
  • We have a woodland park zoo membership also :-)
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
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