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Anyone suffer from anxiety?

I am going thru building a house. Moving and other issues and have noticed my anxiety is more often. In the past I have noticed issues with it but only once in awhile and usually related to my hormones so i have just dealt with it. I am not one to take meds to fix problems so I am looking for other methods on how to handle this. Should I go to a psychologist? I am looking for some ideas. Any thoughts welcome.

Re: Anyone suffer from anxiety?

  • Talk therapy can help but if you're anxiety issues are chemical, medication is necessary for relief.
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  • I think talk therapy is a good place to start if you don't want to jump right into meds.  I did talk therapy when I was a senior in high school and it did wonders for my depression.  I think the depression was stemming from stresses/changes in my life and it really did help to talk through things.
     
  • A psychologist/psychiatrist could help with coping mechanisms and medications if needed.

    I hear you on the building a house and trying to sell a house, constantly cleaning/putting away/being ready for a showing, etc. My stress levels are close to an all-time high! An offer would be so nice and help relieve some anxiety
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  • Since I am a psychologist, I'm going to rave about what talk therapy can do to help you with anxiety.  It's all about perspective and talking to someone neutral is a good place to start to get that perspective.  We're a dime a dozen, so if you happen to start with someone and you don't quite "click," then go see another one.  Don't feel bad about it either.  :)  The important thing is that you are being helped.  Good luck.
  • What you are going thorugh is very common!!

    We picked up and moved our family (3 kids under 6) 1200 m away to Texas last Fall and my anxiety went through the roof. I finally admitted one day, to DH, that I always knew I had a mild form of OCD but that the transition made it sky rocket.

    I was going to look into therapy, but never found the time (sparing you all details here). I just managed on auto pilot and coped, but I think either talking to someone and/or taking something mild to help you cope is not a bad thing at all.

    Good luck!

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  • I don't know if this will be helpful or not since it is not exactly what you are talking about. 

    When I am super stressed I know I'm not going to sleep well.  It is common to be up all night thinking about things.  At these times I take a sleep aid to make sure I get enough sleep and then can function better the next day.

  • My anxiety can be debilitating without medicine.  It is nice to understand that I am having a panic attack and not dying when they come on- but I cannot reason with myself to make it stop. I have never had therapy. but a low dose of some meds is a godsend for me.  Anxiety runs in my family, it isn't just a reaction to a specific stressful time for me. It is a constant in my life. Also, if you do end up trying some meds and it doesn't feel right don't be afraid to try something new or taking the dose at a different time of day. 
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