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In a Rut

*Warning, I'm Grumpy*

I've seen my H a whole 5 days this month and it's really starting to wear on me, plus I am getting sick! We lost another dog to cancer today and there wasn't a damn thing we could do to help him. It's not fair and it scares the sh*t out of me that it could happen to my dogs. I really love what I do but some days it is so draining that it is hard to go back each day and continue to be positive. It doesn't help that I'm not 100% loving where I work. My boss has been a vet for 30+ years and you can tell she is burnt out from it. Unfortunately, because of where I live, finding another job (in my field) isn't super easy and I make good money where I am at. I would start out at the bottom some place else and I don't want to do that. I'm in a career where moving up isn't really an option without moving to a much bigger city and we don't want to do that (COL is suuuuuper cheap where I live). Ugh, I just need a vacation but, again, because of where I work that isn't really possible. There are four employees total (vet, 2 techs, receptionist) so no one to cover for me if I did want to go some place nice with my H. I'd feel guilty leaving my co-worker to work by herself while I'm off having a vacation. Anyways, if you've made it this far, I greatly appreciate it. I've mostly rambled but I really needed to get it all off my chest and I can't talk to Tim because he's on the governments dime for the next week (dumb!). I love having you ladies for support, it means the world <3

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Re: In a Rut

  • Take a vacation. Even a long weekend away with your H. You're burning out. You may feel bad leaving your coworker to cover for you but we all need some time away or we'll go crazy. 

    In the meantime, vent away! 

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  • I agree that a long weekend would be ok. I can understand not wanting to leave your coworker for a whole week but I don't see why a weekend plus a day or two would be so bad. Memorial Day is coming up! Feel free to vent away that's what we are here for. I think being burnt out is normal and everyone goes through it at some point but you can get past it. If nothing else just go get a massage or mani/pedi and try to relax some.
  • I always felt bad about taking time off!!! Then I realized that other people don't have the same concerns about leaving me high and dry. I earned my time off and I should take it.

    Take at least a few days off and relax. Spend it with your H and enjoy it. You deserve it!!

    If you don't take some time, you will be hate your job.

    Annnnnd... vent away :) we all need it every so often.
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  • Where I work it's just me and another pharmacist, so I know how you feel… that being said, the other pharmacist did take a 2-week vacation last fall and I don't think she felt bad about it at all.  Made me realize that some times, it's okay to be a little selfish.  Like others have said, take a long weekend and do something fun- don't feel bad about it.  I haven't taken any vacation in a year and I'm taking a 4-day weekend this weekend, and honestly, I don't even feel guilty.  My employer gets more than enough out of me :)  Good luck, hope things start looking up for you!
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  • A few weeks ago there was a situation at work where some kids were trying to get my other morning staff fired by saying he smashed their faces into tables which was so far from the truth. But all the parents were looking at me for answers and I cracked. I called in sick the next morning just to avoid all the parents and the controversy. I really screwed over that other staff cuz he got all the wrath from the parents. I even admitted to my boss that it was my body's flight response cuz I didn't want to deal with it, and that I was sorry that I didn't really feel bad for taking off. She told me I shouldn't feel bad cuz it wasn't my responsibility anyway and sometimes we just need a break. Best time off ever.
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  • Take a vacation. Even a long weekend away with your H. You're burning out. You may feel bad leaving your coworker to cover for you but we all need some time away or we'll go crazy. 

    In the meantime, vent away! 
    All of this!
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  • Agree withe everyone, hang in there, take care of yourself, you will be better at the job when you get back!
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