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As the world turns...
I should give a background to the ex and her H. They met on MySpace a few months after she left Jeff. This guy was also army (guards) and was in Iraq. He came home for 2 weeks... Knocked her up, went back to Iraq. She had the baby, a few months after Jeff and I started dating. After realizing Jeff wasn't coming back after many attempts, I guess she got back with this guy. They got married after proving paternity (that showed up on Jeff's credit score). May before Jeff and I got married, she kicked him out. Jeff was trying to be friendly with her for the sake of the kids and she took it as he's coming back. Well, that didn't happen so her H came back.
They just moved into a bigger place that would better fit the 3 adults (ex, her H and her mom) and 4 kids (Lilly, Ryan, their kid and his daughter) in February. I guess last weekend he told her he didn't want to be with her anymore. But they could be roommates. Wtf!? I told Jeff I'd kick his ass out if he did that. Let's live together so I don't have to pay child support and you can raise all the kids. F that!
Jeff called her yesterday to see if we could tell Lilly. She said she wasn't home, but riding around clearing her head. I guess she kicked her H out. Seriously, good for her!
But now I'm awaiting bsc to come out. I hope by now she's accepted the fact Jeff isn't coming back. I hope she finds someone that makes her happy, and treats the kids good. But until then, I'm scared of the drama to come...
They just moved into a bigger place that would better fit the 3 adults (ex, her H and her mom) and 4 kids (Lilly, Ryan, their kid and his daughter) in February. I guess last weekend he told her he didn't want to be with her anymore. But they could be roommates. Wtf!? I told Jeff I'd kick his ass out if he did that. Let's live together so I don't have to pay child support and you can raise all the kids. F that!
Jeff called her yesterday to see if we could tell Lilly. She said she wasn't home, but riding around clearing her head. I guess she kicked her H out. Seriously, good for her!
But now I'm awaiting bsc to come out. I hope by now she's accepted the fact Jeff isn't coming back. I hope she finds someone that makes her happy, and treats the kids good. But until then, I'm scared of the drama to come...
Re: As the world turns...
this woman. i'm glad she kicked the guy out but it sounds like that probably won't last. the whole situation is sad:( I feel so bad for Lily and Ryan.
The Rowdy Roberts
thats probably a good idea
The Rowdy Roberts
I am so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yea. I'm here. This woman makes me so freaking angry and I don't even know her!!!!
So I asked what was Lilly's reaction... Ex said she didn't care. I call bullshit. That's all Lilly talked about was the baby when we were down. And was telling me everything she wanted to teacher her if she was a girl.
@janma529 - she's miserable now so she wants everyone else to be too. I see that, you guys see that, Jeff will never see that.
@PhilaPhan - she keelsw telling Jeff she's not with the kids so he can't talk to her. Sooo... If yours never with them give them to us.
I call bullshit too. Ugh I'm so upset for you. I could cry. That's so effed up, that lady really is BSC. Jess told Grant what our baby was, but had his picture to show him and we asked her to do that because we were exhausted and taking care of him...you're baby isn't here yet, so you had time to tell her when YOU choose. Jeff needs to get over being mad at you and realize that this is important to you, especially because this your first child. Men just don't get it.
Where are the kids if they aren't with her?
I call bullshit too. Ugh I'm so upset for you. I could cry. That's so effed up, that lady really is BSC. Jess told Grant what our baby was, but had his picture to show him and we asked her to do that because we were exhausted and taking care of him...you're baby isn't here yet, so you had time to tell her when YOU choose. Jeff needs to get over being mad at you and realize that this is important to you, especially because this your first child. Men just don't get it.
Where are the kids if they aren't with her?
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He got over being mad at me. I think because I've always been neutral. but like you said this is my baby... I'm not neutral anymore when it comes to this. He says he feels in the middle between his ex and me. I don't want him to feel like that, but I have a right to emotions too. I didn't stay mad, I just told him I wish he didn't give ex that info. We've moved on.
I guess the kids are with her mom when she's not there.
Also, her H is still there. She told Jeff everything is fine until she asks him what's going on between them... He storms out. Um what's happening is he wants to bang other girls and still have you at home with the kids...
Jeff is talking to her about it because when they were together she would cut herself... Or worse. He's keeping tabs on her to make sure it doesn't go there... And if it does he can do something to get the kids out.