October 2012 Weddings
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Busy weekends, wedding vent.
I posted a while back about being upset that my baby was not included on two wedding invites a while back. I got over it, made arrangements for family to watch the little guy and attended both weddings. Overall, it went well but I'm a little upset about this weekends wedding.
DH was in the wedding. We traveled two hours and paid for one extra room for my mother to stay with us. An hour and a half before the ceremony, I get a text from DH that says, "bad news, we aren't sitting together".
Am I crazy, or does it seem incredibly rude to separate couples? I get that he was in the wedding and they seated the wedding party together, but seriously, we went through a lot of trouble and money for that wedding. I almost wish I hadn't gone, except I was seated with people I knew and liked so it turned out alright. I ended up having to leave early because I left my flange for my breast pump at the hotel by mistake and I needed to pump...it wouldn't have been an issue if LO was with me since I could have just nursed him. There were children at the wedding, not many, but they were there.
Re: Busy weekends, wedding vent.
My little guy rarely cries and I have the manners to remove him if that happens. Unfortunately, people don't necessarily do that and it ruins it for everyone.
As for seating, I hate when they don't seat couples together. You are going to celebrate a marriage, ya know people coming together, but you are going to separate other couples? How would they like it if they had to sit apart from their new spouse? DH and I already said if that ever happens to us one of us is moving their chair to the other table.