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Jjuicy
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Really need some advice
Its so much to say its been 2 years of not communicating with my husband.My husband and I have been married for 3 years now but together 6 years total and have a son together.I had an affair and found out he was having one as well.We sat down to talk about things and he expressed that he wanted to move forward in our relationship and start fresh.I was all with making it work for the sake of our child.The last 2 years have been the worst since we moved in to help his family out.Our communication stopped,every time that I was unhappy with something he would use it as I was unhappy being in his family home which I was but it would be many different issues.I had time to date other men before our relationship but the guy I had my affair with was a long time family friend and I no longer communicate with him anymore unless I see him around. The reason I cheated was because my husband don't connect with my emotional needs or even care about them,he don't really interact with our son,or put any effort into the relationship besides financial support and he thinks that's all he has to do and I should be the happiest woman on earth but I'm not.I want to leave and be free and just enjoy me while taking care of my son because I have not been in love with my husband in years nor do I have that romantic feel for him anymore.I just gave so much at the beginning of our relationship I don't have anything else to give and everyday its a struggle with us.He thinks I'm being inconsiderate of our child and I am taking him for granted but I feel as if I have never got a time to really know who I was or love me because I always dated someone since the age of 15 and I married him at the age of 21 while he is 10 years older than me.I feel as I deserve better than someone just throwing money at me all the time and expect me to be happy.So am I wrong for my feelings or do I need to take a step away from the marriage for my own personal growth
Re: Really need some advice
See a counselor, like I said. Remember also that even the youngest of kids has a way of picking up signals that their parents are having lots of problems. Not a healthy environment for your child, or you.