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MDW fail (kind of BR...not sure)

If I need to label this as something else let me know


Yesterday was my Dad's B-day so we went to his house for his annual BBQ/Bday party. 2 nights before the part I called him and said "I'm bringing you a surprise and I'm making the casserole you love!" He said "oh okay sounds good!" WELL aparently he thought me "bringing a surprise" meant I had baby news for him, so he went to some of his closest neighbors, who I grew up with, and told them that I said I had a surprise for him and he bet it meant I was pregnant.
I gave him his bday card with his present and his surprise, homemade Reeses Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip cookies... which was NOT baby related at all. Later that night he told me what he had assumed and who he told. A mix of emotions passed over me because of this...

Now he has to go and tell his neighbors that he was wrong or they are all going to start congratulating me when there is nothing to congratulate!

I just can't believe he went and told people news that he didn't even get yet!

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Re: MDW fail (kind of BR...not sure)

  • lfk2013lfk2013 member
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    Yikes.  I'm sorry he jumped to the wrong conclusion.
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  • thats so frustrating. i'm sorry:(
  • Sorry :(





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  • Wow. Guessing something like that I get, but spreading the news you guess is weird. I'm sorry!
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  • Sorry hun.

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  • I'm sorry :(

    Hopefully he can do damage control before you have to have an awkward convos with his neighbors. 



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  • I'm sorry :(

    Hopefully he can do damage control before you have to have an awkward convos with his neighbors. 
    Oh he better!!

    I am good friends with on of my neighbors sons and the last thing I need is the rumor to get to him!

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  • MRadsMRads member
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    Yikes dad! I'm sorry.
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  • Oh no, I'm sorry.  I bet he was just excited about the possibility.
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  • Ugh I'm sorry. I mean it's nice that he sounds like he will be really excited when you do get your BFP, but I'm sorry you have to deal with that. :(

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  • I'm sorry. I hope you don't have to deal with any rumors.

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  • Oh no :(
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  • Thanks ladies! It was just an unexpected comment and I was so blindsided by it. I know he will be excited and probably learned his lesson now.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

    ~~
    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • Yeah, I totally get the "guessing" portion, but hopefully this will teach him to keep his lips closed until he has confirmation. And what if you'd told him early and asked him not to tell anyone for a while? What was he gonna do then??

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  • Sorry he did that Sewilson. :-( Hopefully he lets the neighbors know before they spread it or congratulate you.

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  • Yeah, I totally get the "guessing" portion, but hopefully this will teach him to keep his lips closed until he has confirmation. And what if you'd told him early and asked him not to tell anyone for a while? What was he gonna do then??
    That was exactly what my sister said too.

    imageMags's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
     
    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
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