I want to pull off the high waist bathing suit sooo bad! But, I think my boobs are too big to actually look good in it.
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~ DH was not ready for IUI so we waited ~Started acupuncture in May 2014~ ~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
My husband is an elementary school guidance counselor and I'm not looking forward to him being home all summer... he's going to mess up my nice routines by wanting to hang out all the time (that jerk! :P )
08/13: Started TTC - 07/14: PCOS dx BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
My MIL sent back the cash we left on the table for her when we walked out last week. I will be placing it in an envelope (contemplating not putting a return address on it) and sending it back. I will win this battle of bitch-fits - I promise.
And it's taking everything in me not to call her a bitch to DH. So far, so good...
We are moving in mid-August. We'll be bout 4.5 hours from Wife's family...pretty sure that is going to within my leave radius. I love her family (Back when we were in Boston and 20 mins from them. I would occasionally hang with MIL when wife was out if town) and will love to see my nephews and nieces more, but I anticipate her wanting to drive up there 2 or more times a month. That's going to cut into the amazing wife and son weekends I've been enjoying since we moved last fall. Not to mention being stuck in a car for 9 hours most weekends with wife glued to her phone and littleman shouting about being hungry the entire trip.
@flamingo86 I must confess that I often wish I was that neighbor. It's nice to feel desired every once in awhile. Then again I rarely take my shirt off or have the build to warrant such looks. Don't know why but I feel compelled to also mention I not taking my shirt off isn't because of the hobbit comment the other day. Crazily the hobbitness only applies to my arms, legs, hands, and feet. I think that was just a TMI confession.
My MIL sent back the cash we left on the table for her when we walked out last week. I will be placing it in an envelope (contemplating not putting a return address on it) and sending it back. I will win this battle of bitch-fits - I promise.
And it's taking everything in me not to call her a bitch to DH. So far, so good...
Coming from someone who has in law drama, this seems very immature and petty. You will win the battle of bitch fits by no longer engaging in the bitch fits. You are not 13, even if the other person is acting as such.
@Aimothy - I know the mature thing would be to not sending it back but it's hard whenever she complains that we don't help her, don't care about her, and don't pay for anything but then refuses our help. If we wouldn't send it back, we'd be labeled more greedy and self centered than she already believes we are. Hi rock, hi hard place....
Then the next time she says that, you shut her right down by saying, "We tried to help on ______ and you sent the money back." Facts. Not drama.
And why does it matter what she believes? You know the truth. You and your DH tried to help. She refused it. You can't change how she feels. And you are only going to drive yourself nuts.
Re: FFFC
But, I think my boobs are too big to actually look good in it.
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
My friend and I started our diet/work out routine together. I am pushing myself extra hard so I can "win." So far its working.
08/13: Started TTC - 07/14: PCOS dx
BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
And it's taking everything in me not to call her a bitch to DH. So far, so good...
Married August 2009
3 years. 5 losses.
Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15
Baby Boy born 5.3.15
And why does it matter what she believes? You know the truth. You and your DH tried to help. She refused it. You can't change how she feels. And you are only going to drive yourself nuts.
Baby Boy born 5.3.15
To make you feel my love.