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The title sucks and I'm sorry, but I had no idea what else to say. DH's uncle's mom is home on hospice care. She is a very sweet woman who I see at all of DH's family parties. She is invited to our house when we have Christmas and Mothers Day and birthday parties. She mentioned to DHs uncle that she would love to see us and asked if we would bring M and come visit her. I HATE doing stuff like that. I mean I'm going to go b/c she asked, but I always feel uncomfortable and feel like I always say the wrong thing. And what do we say when we leave knowing we wont see her again??
Re: Visiting a dying person
Honestly, I think the best thing to do is to try to just make it like a normal visit. When my grandfather was in hospice, we talked a lot about his childhood. He always used to tell me stories about being in the Marines when I was little, but I never knew much about when he was young, so I asked him lots of questions. I also told him about things that were going on with me and asked for his advice on stuff.
And when you leave, just tell her that you love her and are thinking about her. That will be true no matter what.
*hugs*
Just say you love her.