Buying A Home
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Leasing vs buying

DH and I have been house hunting like crazy. I'm very picky, with a list of must-haves. DH agrees with these but to him, everything is a great house because he grew up in a trailer. We just saw a home that matched most of the must-haves except that it is a rental. I can't seem to wrap my head around renting a home. The rent would be almost double what we pay now, but we realize that would be about what we would pay for a mortgage too. I just figured it would make more sense to save the money buy staying here till we find a place to buy. What are the benefits of renting a home? What's better about owning?

Re: Leasing vs buying

  • The benefits of renting: You have a landlord who takes care of things like plumbing and other maintenance needs at no extra cost to you. Plus if you feel like moving, all you have to do is wait until your lease is up to pick up and roll out. No worrying about getting your house sold, working with a realtor, etc.

    The benefits of owning: Instead of spending money that you will never see again simply for a roof over your head, you will be doing that and building equity at the same time. Plus your mortgage rate will remain relatively steady- landlords can increase the rent over time. And if you don't plan on moving for several years, if at all, it just plain feels great to plant your roots and feel like a real part of the community and not just a rolling stone.

    If I was in your position I would just stay where I was and save the extra money for a down payment. If the rent on the home is pretty much equal to a mortgage it wouldn't make sense to me to live there. But that is me. There is no one size fits all answer!

    Hope this helped! Good luck!
  • I agree with AMazeOfGrace.
    Also, It's good to consider what your goals are within the next year or two.
    Renting might be best if you're planning on just taking it easy and doing your own thing as a couple, or would like having the option of moving whenever you'd like a new change of scenery.
    Alternatively, if you and DH are planning on having a baby in the near future, or want to find a place to settle down, then staying where you are currently and saving up to buy a home is probably the way to go.
    My husband and I JUST went through a similar situation so I know how it feels trying when to make the best decision! Hope this helped a little!
    :)


  • As PPs have stated above it really depends on your long term goals, what is best for you!

    DH and I rented for over 4 years while we figured out what we wanted to do and where we wanted to live. After our wedding, we started saving a lot more to prepare for a purchase. I HATED our apartment that we have had for 3 years, and have seen some other rentals we could afford, but the way I looked at it: I rather pay less at a rental so we can save for a house where we can actually invest that money, And I rather be a little unhappy in a rental to motivate us to save up, then get comfortable in a rental and end of staying there a long time.

    The kicker for me was after 4 years... we spent between $40,000 and $50,000 in rent. Yes it was a place to live and we needed that, but that's money we will never see again!
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  • We rented cheap apartments, far below what we could afford to pay, in order to be able to save a substantial amount for a down payment for a future house.  Needless to say, there were things that were not desirable in the rental, that I would not want in my own home.
    Make sure your list of "Must Haves" is reasonable for your budget.
    Do NOT buy if you plan to move before 7-10 years,
  • We have since purchased and paid off 2 houses by living below our means.
  • I would advocate buying over renting if the monthly costs are similar. I am a fan of owning in general, though; we've owned four homes now, one of which sold successfully, two of which we rent out successfully, and one which we're living in (our "forever" home).

    I advise investigating the actual cost of ownership in your particular area, though. Many people assume that you will always pay more for a mortgage than you will in rent, but in at least one place we've lived, the opposite was true. The town had an extremely low rental vacancy rate so landlords were price-setters there while actual real estate values, especially in certain areas, were quite low. We literally bought a house at the time because renting would have been about three times the monthly price

    Good luck!
  • NVMom2NVMom2 member
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    I think it's best to buy now since while interest rates are low, buying later will cost you more. 
  • Well for me buying is better as you will have the possession over that place and secondly you can see it as an investment. And as later you want to buy a home then why not now, rates are good enough these days! 
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