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We have some debt, totaling $13,582.59
Loan #1: $ 753.00, no interest
Loan #2: $ 3,963.22, no interest
Loan #3: $ 9,266.00, 8% interest
I plan on snowballing our debt using Dave Ramsey's method, putting 481.00 (12%) of our income every month
We dont make much money, and I do our bills. I'm just angry we've gotten to this place, anyone else with success stories from mounting debt like this?,,
I suck
Re: I'm in a pickle.
Either way, don't beat yourself up. Learn from it and move forward, most of us have made non-MM mistakes in the past. If you're here, you're on the right track.
H and I started 14 months ago with over $33,000 in SL debt and no money in the bank. Today we have a 9 month emergency fund and have less than $10,000 to go on our debt! Combined we make less than $40k/year but are in a situation where we can afford to put about 70% of income towards debt/savings.
You do not suck! Stick around the board and read the posts. They are incredibly inspiring. Put everything you can to your debt and it will be better than you think.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Smart Couples FInish Rih by David Bach - great for working with a partner to make a financial plan that works for you both.
What to do now - start by knowing what is coming in and what is going out --- every dollar. Track your spending, then categorize. Sit down and take a hard look at the cold hard facts and decide where you can cut or reduce your spending - then do it!
If your income is inadequate - then look for 2nd part time jobs.
Fund necessities first - put some aside for an emergency fund, add extra to your debt payments and then fundtnon essentials.
Preplan your spending - go to cash and avoid credit cards. Save first for larger items then spend.
Meal plan, take your lunch to work - stop eating out. You can get almost everything on sale, clearance or bought used. - consider borrowing or renting a seldom used item.
Stick around -
If you hang around this board for awhile, these guys are pretty awesome and very helpful!
MW and I really should tackle one of our debts at a time in a snowball type effect instead we above minimums a lot of our debts so that we she sees more progress on her car loan while I see more movement on my credit card and our one home improvement signature loan. We know that we will have some more medical bills at the end of the year so pretty soon we will switch over to more savings for the medical bills.
You can get there, it just takes time and effort. If you want, post your budget on here and we can find you some more wiggle room. There may be things that if you really look at it you can cut for a while- and if by changing that you can be out of debt in 12-24 months it really may not be much of a sacrifice. I know that there are months that we can live on very little when we have to. We are out of debt now, but are looking into buying a new house and so after I get home I'm even going to be avoiding spending anything on groceries by eating out of the pantry and freezer. Milk and fresh fruit/veggies will be about the only thing I will be purchasing.
But absolutely post your budget- I'm a Dave Ramsey follower and we always have a written budget and it has helped us save a ton more than we have in the past, and we paid off our current house in about 5 years after we started budgeting so I'm a real true believer in this!