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I'm going to be on the news

Because I'm going to slap the next person who tells me that I'll get pregnant after we adopt or while we are in the process.

Raging right now. WTH

Granted, part of this comes from not hiding the process and telling people as we feel comfortable about our plans. But seriously? Really?
TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
3T<3

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  • oh my god i thought this was going to be something fun and cool....ARGH!!! i am so mad FOR you! people are stupid and have no tact when it comes to 3T :(
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

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  • I'll drive up there and bail you out. People would have it coming. They need to learn what is and isn't right to say. I'm sorry people are being assholes. Enjoy a bottle of wine (or more) to unwind this weekend!
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • I HATE that, esp. since our problem is staying, rather than getting, pregnant.
    So I just need to relax and my babies won't die. Awesome.

    I'm with islandmonkey and will bail you out, then we could hang out!

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • People are so dumb.... Just like "relaxing" helps cure diabetes, AIDS, and cancer right?

    Sorry Poppies.


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I HATE that, esp. since our problem is staying, rather than getting, pregnant. So I just need to relax and my babies won't die. Awesome. I'm with islandmonkey and will bail you out, then we could hang out!
    Don't tempt me! That would be epic!
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • Sorry people are being so stupid.  I have heard it all before  ... why don't you just adopt?  Relax, and it will happen... etc etc etc etc.  

    The most annoying thing I have heard was right after my m/c.  My friend and I were pregnant at the same time, about 3 weeks apart.  Shorty after the m/c she called me to check up on me, see how I was feeling etc.  After I finish telling her everything she says to me, "well, if it makes you feel any better, I am still nauseous."  Hmm, no that didn't make me feel better. 

    Hope you are able to enjoy some wine tonight, and have a nice relaxing evening

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    Ugh, sorry Poppies...people are so annoying.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • ughh my worst one has been

     "i wish i could just give it (them) to you"

    meaning the baby(s) that my mid 40's friend is pregnant with following her gastric bypass surgery because she didn't notice her boyfriend? (who is an asshole) didn't wear a condom and she cant take BC.....

    my typical response to the "lose the weight, relax, it will happen when its meant to" is usually "when we lack half of the ingredients aka the male kind....it kinda makes it hard to complete the recipe." or some form of it
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

    11440622
  • I HATE that, esp. since our problem is staying, rather than getting, pregnant. So I just need to relax and my babies won't die. Awesome. I'm with islandmonkey and will bail you out, then we could hang out!
    Don't tempt me! That would be epic!

    ****IN THE BOX***

    I am coming, tooooooooo!!!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • I'm sorry, Poppies. People are dumb.

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • The idiocy just never stops does it?  

    I'm with islandmonkey and Flamingo. I'd totally come bail you out for that. Whoever got smacked upside the head would have earned it, for sure!
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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • People are seriously so ignorant and annoying!  I wouldn't blame you!
    Diagnosed with Severe DOR at 31 years old (AMH .14 FSH 9.8) 
    D & L are here at 34 weeks 4 days by vaginal and breech delivery on 11/19/2013

  • I am no longer surprised at how rude and ignorant people can be when it comes to other people struggles.
    I am all for holding them down while you and your H get a shot at slapping them.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • Ugh I'm sorry. People are so rude an annoying...

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