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frustrated-mini vent

why does it make sense to men sometimes to wait 3-4 days before telling you that something you did bothered them!?!?!?!?! but then expect you to say something the minute it happens!!!!! communication goes both ways!!!!!

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Re: frustrated-mini vent

  • doeydodoeydo member
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    Ha, FI and I have the same problem (but the other way) sometimes.  He wants me to communicate the way I feel more in the moment so that I don't "pent up" what I am feeling and build it up in my mind of a few days before talking to him about it.  I try, but I'm not perfect.
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  • I am sure I do it too......maybe thinking that the feeling of being bothered would just go away I guess?
  • why does it make sense to men sometimes to wait 3-4 days before telling you that something you did bothered them!?!?!?!?! but then expect you to say something the minute it happens!!!!! communication goes both ways!!!!!

    8-}
    Aye carumba, mama mia ach der lieber or whatever phrase ya wanna use.:(

    He's got to communicate better...or else you may wind up walking on eggs with him.
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