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I struggle with this so bad. DH and I have saved $4500 to put towards closing costs when we buy a home. We have been looking and looking but have yet to find what we want. We were planning to try for a sellers concession when we find the right one, but our savings has just kept growing while we look.
We have a loan that is under 3k right now that I am considering just paying off. That would be 75-115 dollars a month back in our pocket. If we were planning on doing a concession anyway, should we just pay off the debt while we are still house hunting?
Re: Savings vs bills
For now, I would consider splitting the amount you are saving 1/2 to new house and 1/2 to debt pay off.
Make sure you have a good 6 month's expenses saved that will still be in your bank AFTER closing - along with moving costs, start up costs, repairs/renovations/ decorating/furniture and the assorted outdoor and tools etc that comes with setting up a house/home.
Don't jump into home ownership until you are financially prepared.
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Definitely this.....we moved in at the end of January. The upstairs A/C unit just died on us and even with a home warranty, it is costing us $300-400 to get it fixed.