Pittsburgh Nesties
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Kids and believing

Dd still believes in Santa, etc. she's only 6 so I'd like to keep it that way!

Over the past year or so she does ask about princesses. We went to Disney a few years ago and she truly believed they were all real at the time. But she has started questioning. Like is Elsa real? Does she really have ice powers. I have kind of just gone with that they are.

The other night she was asking me again if they were real and said that some kids have been saying they aren't and even the teachers have said it (what the hell?!). I asked her what she thought and she said she thinks they are real. I told her it was fine for her to believe that and some people can believe different things and that's ok.

Ugh!! I don't really care if she "believes" in princesses. Although if rather keep that belief longer. And I feel like its a slippery slope! Once she stops believing in this I feel like it's pretty easy to start questioning other stuff. I'm not ready for that.

Has this come up with your kid? How do you handle it? I feel bad straight up lying! Which is why I turned it back on her and what she believes. But I also worry that if kids are saying they aren't real it may turn into them making fun of her at some point if she believes.
Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers

Re: Kids and believing

  • Noah is 9 and still believes in Santa.  However, I have always told them that the things they see on TV/movies aren't real.   So I think that you can believe in one and not the other.   Noah has had a few classmates say that Santa isn't real.  So I say things like "you have to just believe and some people choose not to".   
  • Luckystar2Luckystar2 member
    Ancient Membership 2500 Comments 25 Love Its Combo Breaker
    edited July 2014

    Noah is 9 and still believes in Santa.  However, I have always told them that the things they see on TV/movies aren't real.   So I think that you can believe in one and not the other.   Noah has had a few classmates say that Santa isn't real.  So I say things like "you have to just believe and some people choose not to".   

    For most stuff on tv we say it isn't real but Disney princesses are a bit if a conundrum. The magic of Disney is believing they are meeting all those real princesses vs just people dressed up as them. When we were there she completely believed those were the real princesses. I hate to lose that already! I feel like because she believes in them if we start saying no those aren't real now...it could be seen the same way as stuff like Santa. Is he really just a guy dressed up as Santa, etc.
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
  • I totally feel you!  I don't ever want my kids to lose the magic.  My 5 year old is a thinker.  Like, you could almost see the wheels turning in her head at Disney on Ice.  She was asking me if the characters were real.  I said no, that's not really Nemo (I mean the fish had legs with ice skates sticking out of it) but I said I'm pretty sure that really is Belle, Ariel.  Where as my 3 year old jumps into the magic with two feet and never looks back.

    Good luck.  Let me know what you come up with.
     
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards