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Re: Excuses not.to.have sex

  • Haha we have a role reversal... I could make a spreadsheet for H. Even now while pregnant.

    That said, I think this is an immature approach. Even if he made the spreadsheet, show her in person and talk about it. Not Blindside her on her way to travel then refuse to respond. We've had these convos and they are hard and sure things get heated but we are better for it.
    Eliza Mae - September 16th, 2014

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  • It may be immature, but its totally something I could see myself doing. It truely shows that hes trying, but she keeps blowing him off. He is persistant if nothing else.

    Him not returning her calls makes him look like an ass though.

  • So...here's my take on this...

    If H is in the mood, he will do things that get me in the mood, too (unless I'm clearly not feeling well, obviously).  And I do the same if the situation is the other way around.  What is this guy doing?  Asking if they can have sex?  Or showing her that he would like to have sex?  Those are two very different things!

    I dunno, maybe H and I are just nymphos :\">
  • If Greg made that in a serious, non-joking kind of way, I would tell him to add that spreadsheet as a new reason for the next month. He has joked with me and has said that I can't be "tired" two nights in a row, and I'm not, I just want to wait until whatever show I'm watching is over lol.

    But I think there is obviously some reason behind why they aren't doing it as often as they should be. Maybe her husband just gets on her nerves and the spreadsheet is just one example of how annoying he is. 
    A: 10.02.03    M: 01.28.11
  • Yea, I agree with everyone.  I just think he was being immature by sending it to her when she was leaving and then not answering the phone.  I'm sure there is a lot more to this story though.

    I have an ap for my phone to track periods and ovulation.  A couple months I used it to keep track of the number of times DH and I had sex.  We were both surprised at the frequency.  ;)

     

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