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Nothing to see here.

BruinsBabe33BruinsBabe33 member
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edited July 2014 in Getting Pregnant
This is a horrible story and I won't leave it up.

Re: Nothing to see here.

  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    :( I'm guessing the end result wasn't a happy one.  
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
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  • What's the story? Is it the doe???

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  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    @amandaf6383 and I apparently are not good at following the "nothing to see here" directive lol
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • nfp147nfp147 member
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    Oh no, now I'm worried about the doe.
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    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

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  • Xan921 said:
    @amandaf6383 and I apparently are not good at following the "nothing to see here" directive lol
    No way I'm much too nosy and concerned! lol

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  • BruinsBabe33BruinsBabe33 member
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    edited July 2014
    Yes. I deleted off Facebook as well. I will update below, but it's graphic so don't read if you don't want to be sad forever.





    We had a doe in the driveway this morning. Alan went to drive away and she didn't move. He approached her and she still didn't move so he knew she was hurt. We called animal control and they didn't open till 7 (it was 5:40) so we called the police. The police officer scared her and she went to get up but couldn't. She was worse than we thought. I left a message with animal control and monitored her from the window until he arrived. He got her and then had to bring her in to the yard and shot her. I have been crying since I found out what was going to happen. I feel horrible and pretty much want to die. He was very apologetic and was choked up himself saying it was the worst part of his job. He was very kind to her and petted her to calm her down before he had to euthanize her. There is now a patch on my lawn and I can't even begin to think about dealing with it.
  • spin25spin25 member
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    Oh jeez Bruins. How awful. I'm so sorry. <3
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  • Oh Bruins. I'm so sorry. You and Alan did the right thing. I'm glad the officer was humane and kind.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
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  • Omg omg omg. That is fucking awful. I feel so bad for you and Alan that you had to witness that as well as the officer who had to euthanize her. :-( I know he did what was the most humane but I can't imagine having to make that decision.

    Big hugs and love. <3

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • nfp147nfp147 member
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    I'm sorry you had to see that Bruins. You did the right thing though; she would have suffered much more had you not called someone.
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    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

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  • Aw I'm so sorry.
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  • Damn. I missed your post about it, but I'm so sorry you had to witness that.

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  • I'm so sorry you had to experience this. It is so sad. Even when you know the right thing is happening, it is sad.
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  • :(( This is heartbreaking!!! Even though it was clearly the right thing to do for her. I'm so sorry you had to see it. I would've immediately lost it.
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  • Oh Bruis I am so sorry you had to experience that! I would be crying too!

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  • I'm so sorry you had to witness that! I would be crying too. :(



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  • arj14arj14 member
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    Oh god, I am so sorry!!  You did the most humane thing possible, but I know it's difficult to feel that way when this is the outcome.  I'm glad the officer was kind to her, but... jesus.  I'm crying just reading about it.  Many hugs to you, Bruins. :(
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  • OMG I am so sorry!  That is horrible. So sorry you had to see that!  I would have lost it too.  :(

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  • BeeLuBeeLu member
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    Oh no, I'm so sorry Bruins. It's horrible, but it was the humane thing to do and it seems like the animal control officer handled it as best as possible.

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  • Oh, Bruins. I'm so sorry. <3
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  • Dang, that is awful. Do sorry :(

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  • We had this same thing happen at my parent's house a few years back. My mom was so upset, she wasn't expecting them to just shoot the doe like that. She thought that she would be sent to a rehab facility, she looked like she just had a broken leg or something. I'm so sorry you guys had to witness that as well. :(

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