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DH's brother

Have I talked about him before?

The short version: NOTHING happened between BIL and his family, however, when he got married he separated himself completely. He's in the army (a physical therapist, the army paid for all of it) and he asked to be stationed far away. Texas first, then Alaska. He stopped talking to everyone, N included. Totally weird...nothing caused it...but terrible none the less. He has never sent a card or anything for either girl. We both said 'screw them' awhile back, but it's just now that the rest of his family has realized BIL sucks.

Now...BIL found out about 3 months ago he'd be deployed to Egypt, in the middle of some crazy shit. He never told N he was being deployed, we found out through his parents. He chose not to come home before his deployment, even though I'm sure he could have swung it. NOW, we find out that he actually left yesterday without so much as a 'see ya later, brother' text. WTF. 

Re: DH's brother

  • That is probably the weirdest thing in the world. Does he just not answer the phone if you guys call or text? If my sister pulled that crap, I'd be stalking the hell out of her until I got an answer of some sort as to why she hates everyone. Like showing up at her door kind of thing if I found out where she lived.

    And WTF to not saying goodbye before going on deployment. Crazy.
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  • That's a shame.

    How is N handling this new develpoment?
  • janma529 said:
    That's a shame.

    How is N handling this new develpoment?
    I was thinking this too. How is N dealing with this? I would be pretty upset.
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  • So weird! Especially since nothing started it. For he think he's better than everyone else?
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    @mammersoh  He will text back occasionally, but we don't even text him anymore- what's the point. I, personally, would drive to Egypt and throat punch my sister.

    N is really like 'whatever' with the whole situation. It's not surprising that he did this...so that's how bad it is. 
  • this is so messed up! I'm glad that N doesn't take it personally. I know I would! I'm like you, if my sister did something like that i'd track her down and hurt her!
  • That is sad.  I feel bad for N. Does SIL have anything to do with it?

     

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