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GTKY - Me & DH

DH and I have a very long history. We met when I was 19 and he was 27 at a friend's party. I immediately was smitten and he was, too. We dated for about a year, though pretty casually. The age difference was pretty intense then - I was in my second year of college and he was on his career track.

We broke up, started dating again, and played that game for about two years until we mutually agreed to part ways. We were both really bummed but it just wasn't working and we didn't want things to get ugly.

Two years went by without hearing from him, seeing him, etc. I moved and he moved and we both got on with our lives. One night I was out on a date with a guy that I had been casually seeing and a bunch of my friends and their boyfriends. We went to a random pub that I had never heard of before. About an hour after we got there, my best friend came up to me and said "I just saw Tom." I was pretty buzzed and didn't quite catch what she meant and then I looked up and saw him.

I proceeded to freak out in the bathroom for a bit and then decided (probably because I was drunk) that I was going to be "mature" and talk to him. We talked outside for an hour and then he left with his friends and I left with the people I came with. That night I ended things with the guy I was seeing and he broke it off with his girlfriend and DH and I went to breakfast the next day. We've been together ever since.

Tom is very "manly". He knows how to build things and fix things. He's very social and easy going, which is good because I am definitely Type A and tend to worry about things unnecessarily. He loves sports and he loves his family. My favorite thing about him is how funny he is. He cracks me up all the time and he is the only one who can reach me if I'm in a funk. He really is my best friend and I have a better time doing everything when I'm doing it with him. He will be an amazing father.

I don't have any pictures from when we were younger (drat) but here are some pics of us:

This is DH and I at a Red Sox game right after we got back together for the final time -

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DH and I at dinner -

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A (not good lol) picture of us while renovating our house -

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Tom with our niece, Olivia (she's obsessed with him) -

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Demo-ing our kitchen -

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One of my favorite pictures of Tom from my sister's rehearsal dinner -

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Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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Re: GTKY - Me & DH

  • You guys are a cute couple! Love the story also.True soulmates! :)

     

     

     After awhile, you just want to be with the one who makes you laugh. - Mr. Big

     

     

     




     

  • What a cute couple!

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  • You guys look like such a cute couple!



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    Thanks for bumping @LooneyLife.  I've never seen this, but enjoyed reading it and learning about their love story.  Sending many thoughts and prayers to Amanda and their families and friends.  

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    TTC since Jan 2014
    BFP: 1/14; spontaneous m/c at 6w
  • This is so beautiful. @Looneylife Thank you for bringing it up. I think it is a perfect way to show how much love there is there. Amanda, I love you and so many people here love you and we are here for you. <3 It's so unfair that he was taken from you far too early.
  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    This brought tears to my eyes. He seemed like such an amazing man and the love you two have for each other shines brightly through your smiles. We are all here for you Amanda and love you so much!
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    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
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  • What a beautiful couple.
    Married 2011.
    Baby Boy 2015.
  • So sweet.
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
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  • What a great love story. Such a beautiful couple.
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  • This both breaks my heart and makes me smile. 

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  • lb1117lb1117 member
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    Thank you for sharing this again. Such a great tribute to their love.
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • Thanks for bumping this. One of the things that always comes across with Amanda is her passion and love for her husband. From what she has told us and the outpouring of love on FB, it's clear that he was a great guy.

    Amanda, I don't know if/when you'll see this, but you and your family are on my mind. I wish I could take the pain away. <3
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
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  • Beautiful tribute to sn amazing love.
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • I am crying read this. What a beautiful love story about two wonderful people.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Such a beautiful story! I'm glad you bumped this so I can read. Amanda, I don't know why your husband was taken from you, but please know that you are loved and supported by all of us. My heart continues to break for you.
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  • What a beautiful love story. I'm glad she will have this amongst many other memories and pictures to remember him. I know memories don't take away the pain but hopefully they can provide some comfort in the hard times. I can't express enough how hard I am praying for you and your family Amanda. Praying for comfort and courage to go forward. I can't even imagine. <3
  • Every time Amanda spoke of Tom, it was clearly true love. My heart breaks for her.
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    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • Thanks for bumping this. Such a beautiful story.
    Anniversary
    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • Thank you for bumping this post up. I had never seen it. It truly is a beautiful and touching reminder of the love they shared.

    Amanda...it was clear to everyone that you and your DH shared a love that anyone would be envious of.



    Me: PCOS and Hypothyroidism.
    Currently on Metformin and Synthroid
    BFP: 10.7.14
    EDD: 6.15.15

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  • Thank you for bumping this Looney. They have a beautiful story and such an amazing love for one another. My prayers are with you and your family Amanda.

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    FET - BFN
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    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • Looney thank you, I appreciate getting to read this... What a beautiful story to support the love I saw come from your words every time you talked about him Amanda <3
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  • Thank you for bumping this, what a beautiful reminder of the love they shared. <3

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  • nfp147nfp147 member
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    Thank you for bumping this @LooneyLife

    Amanda, thank you for sharing Tom with us. I'm so sorry he was taken from you.
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  • <3

    Beautiful story and pictures. It really is so clear how much she loved (and will continue to love) him. I'm fighting back tears all over again. 

    Love you, Amanda. 
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    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
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  • What a beautiful love story and amazing memories.  

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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