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Small Update re:amandaf

I sent Amanda a message to run an idea by her.  I don’t want to do anything she doesn’t want.  Obviously responding to me is not going to be her first priority, so I’ll update when I can.

I’m not going to post any more than this, but it looks like it was a car accident.  Out of respect to her, any more than that could be identifying, and it isn’t my place to post her life in a public forum.

I love you all, in case it isn’t said enough.  This is an amazing, beautiful group of people.  

IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
FET - BFN
FET - BFN
Switched clinics
IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Baby Boy born July 2015

Re: Small Update re:amandaf

  • Thank you, ILRV for updating all of us. How very tragic.
  • Thank you for keeping us updated. My heart is just absolutely broken for her. Please let us know when you figure something out. <3

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • Thank you for keeping us updated. Please send her all of our love.





    dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

     TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

    IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
    24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
    IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
    28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
    EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
    FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP

    C.J. born 01/09/15

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  • Thank you. Sending love and prayers and thinking about her.
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    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • So very sad. She has been on my mind all day. He sounded like a wonderful man and I know they loved each other very much.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • arj14arj14 member
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    Thank you for updating us. I've been thinking of her all day.
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    08/13: Started TTC  - 07/14: PCOS dx
    BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
  • I have been thinking of her.
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
  • Thank you for keeping us updated ILRV. It is all just so very sad.
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
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  • Thanks, ILRV. I have been thinking of and praying for her all day. DH was so sad to hear this news when he got home; he knows how much the women in this forum mean to me.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • nfp147nfp147 member
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    Thanks for the update ILRV.  Just by the messages on her FB page, it's obvious that he was loved very much and that Amanda has a lot of support. I just can't imagine what she must be going through. I'm so sad for her.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • lb1117lb1117 member
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    Thanks for the update, ILRV. 
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



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    <3<3<3
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  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    I just cannot even comprehend this. My heart breaks for her and their family.
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • Thank you for updating us, ILRV. It's just so tragic and awful. She is surrounded by so many people who love her and loved her DH; I hope she can find consolation and solace in them.

    I love you ladies. I'm glad we have this place to come in times like this.
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    TTC since July 2012
    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • I still can't believe it. I came home and told DH and cried. Life is so short and this could have been any one of us. I love you ladies and Amanda, please let us know if there is anything at all we can do. I know words may not seem like much, but right now I hope you feel our support through them. So many prayers to you and your family.
  • I am so incredibly sad for Amanda.  Thank you for the update.  I have been thinking of her all day.
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  • So sad, still thinking of her
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • So devastating.  :( 
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    <3<3 "You know my name, not my story.
    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
    If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step." <3<3


  • Thank you for the update. I have cried and prayed for her periodically today. I cannot stop thinking of her.
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  • Thank you for updating us. She has been on my mind all day. When I told DH, he was pretty shaken up as well, and neither of us has met her. My prayers continue to go out to her.
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    Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"

  • Thank you, ILRV. I can't even imagine. Please let us know what we can do once she responds.


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Thanks for the update, ILRV. Like the other PPs, I've been thinking of Amanda and her family all day.
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    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • Thank you for the update, ILRV.

    Amanda, if/when you read these, know that you are such a strong woman with the support of many great friends and internet strangers. I can't even imagine what you're going through, but I know that you can get through it and you'll have people to lean on along the way.

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    "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

    TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15
    Baby A born 6/17/2015
  • BeeLuBeeLu member
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    Thank you for the update, ILRV. Many thoughts and prayers to Amanda and her family.

     ~ S & L 8-25-12  ~
  • Thank you for the update. Amanda and her family have been in my thoughts constantly.



    Me: PCOS and Hypothyroidism.
    Currently on Metformin and Synthroid
    BFP: 10.7.14
    EDD: 6.15.15

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  • OceanHuttOceanHutt member
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    edited July 2014
    I am so so sorry :( thank you for the update ILRV... Amanda if you see this please know we are sending all the love to you <3

    (Edited. Because even as a therapist my words don't come across right!)
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

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