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What's that one thing your spouse does that drives you up a wall?
Re: What's that ONE THING...
It shouldn't bother me, because it doesn't affect me in any way. Just a pet peeve. I've joked that I'm going to start waking him up with the water guns when that happens. xD
Sometimes on a Friday night after a long week of work you just want to sit and put your feet up with a glass of wine. But no.. he wants to go dancing, bungee jumping, climbing Mount Everest.. it doesn't matter as long as he is moving and doing something.
It's funny because that was one of the things that made me love him so much when we first met. He gets me doing stuff! I'm pretty sure if I was single I would have no trouble with only going out once a month (hermit!) He makes me fun
When he gets home he puts his barn clothes in the laundry closet. Also, in the dining room and doesn't close the door all the way. Then proceeds to ask me every single night where his shorts are. I.Picked.Them.Up.Dear.
My little pet peeve is he almost always goes to bed before me and will lay on TOP of the covers in the summertime. So then, when I come to bed, I have to half wake him up to get OFF the covers so I can climb in. EVERY. NIGHT. It's summer, it's hot, I get it. But then push the covers to the side if you don't want them on you.
The big pet peeve is also procrastination and (warning) more of a rant. He was laid off a year ago and still hasn't found another job. I suspect some of that has to do with him not looking nearly as much as he should.
So, okay, he's unemployed. The house I bought that we live in was a foreclosure and still needs a lot of work. So, hey...I'll at least have him get a lot of these projects done while he has the time. My house is still only half painted for the last six months. The seating area for our fire pit is still separate stones in three piles
. Granted, he has done a good bit in that regard...but not when I consider that it has been a YEAR.