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Using Credit Card for Travel Rewards
Hello! It's been forever since I've been on these boards. I have been thinking about getting a southwest credit card for travel points. We are planning a trip to Disney next year and I would love to be able to fly so I was thinking getting free flights with reward points could help out with the cost. My DH is not really thrilled with this idea, as he hates credit cards and is afraid we might be tempted to charge more than we would normally spend in an effort to get points. I don't want this to happen either and would want to manage it really well. I was thinking of starting out using it for gas, work travel that I would get reimbursed for, maybe monthly bills that I can use it for. My questions for those of you that use them purely for points: How much stuff do you put on your card, just gas?, everything, etc? How fast do you accumulate points? Is it reasonable to think I could get enough for a flight in 6 months or so? Can I put my mortgage on it or are there certain bills that I am not able to? How much of a lag time is there between when they are earned and when they can actually be used? I am thinking the sign on bonus would be enough for one and then if I could at least get enough for another free one, it would be worth it. Do you have a system for managing it? Do you go in and pay the card off each time a bill clears? I am thinking that might be the best way to keep up with it budget-wise, but would love to hear about any other systems that work for you.

Re: Using Credit Card for Travel Rewards
Our card does have a yearly fee (I think $100?) but H's work pays for it because he has to have a high-limit card to book reimbursible travel on.
There are some good card comparison sites online if you Google - they can help you figure out what fits your needs and maximize the rewards you want.
The Freedom card also has specials where they give you $200 or so for opening a card and $50 for referring a friend. I recently talked H into finally getting a card (mine is in my name only), so we banked $250 for him doing so by my referral. I also talked my parents into getting the card.
I use my card for absolutely everything possible, and I typically make between $12 to $25 a month. The card is more so designed for actual cash back, but you can cash in your points for travel deals or gadgets or what not also. I usually let my cash back money build up until I reach a bad month with an unexpected expense. Its nice to have an extra $70 or so lying around to use in an emergency. Although I let mine build up, you can get your cash back as soon as your billing statement for the month ends.
As far as H being scared, is he more worried about himself or you abusing the card? Maybe just one of you could use the card for a certain amount of time to see how it works. I also like the idea of using the card for a specified expense like gas, which you would have to purchase anyway.
We use the Capital One Venture Rewards card, which gives 1.25 points for every dollar spent. I pay off each purchase right away, usually the same night, except for my monthly work reimbursables. It's not the most efficient rewards card out there, but we find the travel points fun and motivating. Our card has no annual fee, but there's another version with a fee that gives 2 points per dollar. Each travel purchase you make can be reimbursed if you have enough points to cover all of it. For example, a $200 plane ticket costs 20,000 points. However, you can pick any airline and also use points towards hotel or other travel expenses.
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I have the Barclaycard Arrival Plus World MasterCard Elite. I love it. The sign-on bonus right now would get you 40,000 or about $400 in free travel if you spend $3,000 in the first three months of getting approved for the card, so that might be the fastest way for you to meet your rewards goal on a six-month timeframe. I charge every thing that I possibly can to it, and I pay off the balance in full each month. The fee is waived the first year, but is $89 a year after that, so you'd need to analyze what your spending is to see if it's worth it.
Since getting mine, I would say that it does make me *slightly* more likely to spend than if I were not getting the 2x points on every purchase. However, I still stick pretty closely to my regular monthly budget. You should talk to your husband about his (legitimate) concerns prior to applying for anything. If you have certain set monthly expenses (like your rent/mortgage, gas, car insurance, phone bill) and agree to only pay those with the card, then that may be a good compromise.
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