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September Recap / October Goals
SEPTEMBER
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month?
2. What did you do differently this month that helped?
3. What were your greatest achievements?
4. What were your biggest downfalls?
OCTOBER
1. What are your goals for this month?
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal?
3. What area of your budget do you want to work on this month, and how do you plan to do that?
Re: September Recap / October Goals
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month?
Not very good. I was hoping to cut back a lot but we spent a lot more than expected on food and dining out
2. What did you do differently this month that helped?
I didn't spend my total gas budget since I'm not working.
3. What were your greatest achievements?
Not spending a lot on gas. We also signed up for life insurance.
4. What were your biggest downfalls?
Overspending in most categories.
OCTOBER
1. What are your goals for this month?
Not going out and avoid spending.
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal?
To avoid shopping unless necessary.
3. What area of your budget do you want to work on this month, and how do you plan to do that?
Eating out and grocery. I'm just trying to use up what I have at home before buying more groceries.
SEPTEMBER
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month? My biggest goal this month was to get all the birthday presents done, which I did. And, set up a doable budget to get our credit scores up, still working on this. And not fall behind on any bills.
2. What did you do differently this month that helped? Really planned out each paycheck.
3. What were your greatest achievements? Not falling behind and getting birthdays done. Also having half of Christmas done as well.
4. What were your biggest downfalls? Seeing the brutal truth on mint.
OCTOBER
1. What are your goals for this month? Finishing Christmas shopping, and installing an uber frugal menu plan. And trying desperately to give away some dogs without getting kicked out.
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal? Really tracking and planning.
3. What area of your budget do you want to work on this month, and how do you plan to do that? Our groceries, between dogs and people we spent $1600+ In the month of September. I didn't realize we even had that much money.
SEPTEMBER
Pretty good considering all I am doing right now is HOARDING savings in case my moonlighting gig falls through or until I can pay off my car, whichever comes first.
I started moving any money leftover from the previous pay directly into savings. For some reason I'm not even a little bit tempted to spend my savings money, but can't wait to spend what's in my regular account, so I started capitalizing on that this month. I also put the vast majority of my Birthday Money into savings, which is a first.
POSITIVE NET WORTH! I'm still so excited about that!
Not sticking to my envelopes as much as I used to. I didn't throw everything to the wind, but could have done better.
Continue to put every red cent that I can into savings.
STRICTLY follow my envelopes so that I'm not dipping into anything that could go into savings.
I really need to stop buying things I don't need. I'm going to use all of what I have at home before buying new. Shampoo/Conditioner is a good example. I just buy new whenever I run out in my shower and forget to look in my closet to see if there is anything stockpiled. Last night I even used an old sample that's been taking up space and bought me another day of not needing to buy something new. I think that will help with my envelopes as well. It's always interesting to me to see how those little things can really add up over time!
I know what you mean about lotion though. I've just gotten to the point where I take it back when I get it as a gift. I have really sensitive skin so can't use Bath & Body or Victoria's Secret or any of that. Heck, I just got a $20 lotion(with the tag still on it) for my birthday. I'm going to take it back. I can't possibly go through that much lotion in a lifetime. And that $20 lotion will turn into a $20 gift for my sister at Christmas-time since I don't shop at that store. Win-win-win.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
SEPTEMBER
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month?
We are done with most of the house projects that we set out to do in our first year in the house, so the Home Depot trips have leveled off, so I guess that's a win for the month of September. We also cashed out some points on an old credit card, so, any Home Depot purchases we did were covered by those points (yay gift cards!).
I actually looked at our budget spreadsheet for the first time in a while. We dusted off the virtual cobwebs and looked at it with fresh eyes.
We admitted that our spending got pretty crazy and determined to do something about it!
BUDGET! BUDGET! BUDGET! -- and follow it!
Get back to YNAB-ing! Weekly/Bi-Weekly budget meetings with the hubs.
Our main area of budget-busting has always been eating out. If we get this under control, we'd have so much more to throw at debt/savings. I need to get a good meal planning regimen going -- any suggestions?
TTC Countdown to 8/2015