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How to handle unexpected expenses?
How do you handle unexpected expenses? We have an emergency fund however we didn't plan for this expense - which is the definition of emergency...
Looks like we will have to rip out carpet in our one bedroom ASAP. Related, we are also foreseeing vet bills in the near future. Our sweet kitty isn't getting any younger and we're dealing with some unknown medical issues. We are trying to figure out what is best for our kitty but unfortunately we also have to look at the financial aspects as well. Some good friends of ours had their pet back and forth to our state university vet and although they don't regret it, it's been a lingering financial burden.
We love our kitty, our first "baby." Such a roller-coaster...
Edited to say: Our cat is suddenly having medical issues and the mentioned carpet appears to be ruined by cat urine. We have been unsuccessful in getting it clean. We do budget for routine pet expenses. We are still working on reaching our emergency fund goal but do have our max OOP medical and our auto/home insurance deductibles accounted for.

Re: How to handle unexpected expenses?
As far as ripping up the carpet if there is any way at all you can put it off and try and save up at least some of the cost then do that.
ETA: I can't spell.
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We are waiting to talk with the vet again but it's looking like kidney failure or similar. It's been an emotional few days trying to figure out what we'll do if the news isn't good.
We budget for routine pet costs (vet appts, shots, food, etc).
Carpet - how is this a surprise - carpets do not need replacing overnight. You should have a line item for household maintenance/replacement for flooring, windows, roof, furnace, appliances, etc. They all need to be replaced at some point - so you contribute to a fund and then pull the money out as needed
Why the carpet removal ASAP? Can it be cleaned?
Remove it and live with the bare subfolor until you save for new carpet?
I already posted that the carpets are soaked with cat urine which happened less than a week ago and we've had no luck getting the smell out with a carpet cleaner and enzyme cleaner.
I also stated we budget for routine pet expenses.
Male cat urine is not a pleasant smell. We aren't using our furnace right now because it's spreading the smell even worse.
Our budget isn't perfect and we can't pull special emergency funds out of nowhere. We also don't have a ton of free money at the end of every month. We just updated and included an estimate in our October budget for the ER bill our son had from last month and the two follow up appts it required - hence emergency fund that covers our OOP max.
H mentioned doing the carpet on an interest free credit card promotion but I don't want to.
I hope our kitty will be okay as well. We've had him for a long time.
Our emergency fund isn't depleted. We are still trying to reach our goal but we have enough to cover auto/home deductibles and medical out of pocket. (We utilize my company's flex accounts for medical and dependent care.)
I guess we've been lucky and haven't really hit a "when it rains, it pours" like this before.
We have decided to add to our Efund goal to cover extra in pet expenses.
H and I are now talking about using our home improvement credit card and doing it through the interest free promotion.
I'm not aware of any of those rug stores but I'll start looking. Thanks!
White Vinegar is a neutralizer to cat urine. If you know where your kitty pee'd, soak the spot(s) for an hour or so in the vinegar. Then, get a carpet shampoo/cleaner and wash the carpet.
This will delay the extra $$ of a carpet replacement.
The wet spots on the floor under layment will need to be treated - or the smell will continue.
I would not recarpet until you no longer have a cat - or the possibility of a repeat performance may occur - or have a plan to keep the cat out of the room - any lingering residue can be smelled by the cat and they will return to that spot.
Good idea. We just normally take expensive emergencies out of our e-fund as well and replenish when we can.
Sorry about your kitty, hope s/he gets better....
We tore the carpet out. We're treating the subfloor right now. Hopeful we don't have to replace that.
H and I have always had pets throughout childhood and on. H grew up on a farm. This is our first pet together and our first experience of dealing with an aging pet. We've never had any pet issues thus far (almost 10 years and we have two cats). We see the vet this afternoon.
Thanks for all helpful suggestions. After this experience we will definitely be reevaluating our budget.
We had two fairly large areas on different sides of the room. We are decided to look at flooring options after work and find the best option for our budget.
Yesterday I just read an article about cat pee stains and the person had the same question that you did! The lady said to try the vinegar as well as the enzyme spray just as you did but I guess that didn't work. She said they were VERY tough stains to get out...so if that doesn't work, you may need to replace the carpet. Did you try Nature's Miracle?
We are getting some estimates on Friday. We found some very affordable options thanks to sales and close outs. We already have a credit card through the home improvement store. So we are looking at 0% interest for six months. We'll put the full amount on that and then evaluate our budget. We did a quick estimate ourselves last night. H thinks we can have it paid in a few months without taking from the efund.