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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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If I was in your place I would still set very firm boundaries and be prepared to reinforce them until they get it. The two of you need to have a plan before the visit on how to deal with his folks during their visit or your resentment will grow.
It won't be easy and they won't get it because you never set limits before but until you do your resentment will just keep growing.
Read them the riot act: tell them they are not to come over unless INVITED.
Wow, that's the only polite thing to do: you do not drop in when you feel like it!
And then back it up: if they ring the bell and you're home? Don't get the bell. Just go about your business. Let them get the message.