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3T Check in

If you have any changes to this list, wish to be removed, added, or have graduated (yay!), please shoot me a PM. 

FYI: We don't want to exclude people, but this is a check in for ladies who are unfortunately having trouble trying to conceive (TTTC = 3T). If you've been trying for more than a year and/or have been diagnosed with any form of infertility OR are now pursuing adoption OR have decided to remain childless following a 3T journey, you are welcome to join us. 

 

Updates: Ok ladies... where are we at this week? Testing, Procedures, Appointments, Adoption updates, Life updates? What's going on, etc. Let's here all about it!!

QOTW: What are your Halloween plans for tomorrow? 

 

FFC/AW of the Week (no rules):

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3T

-Abt81813 - Graves Disease DX; Still testing for PCOS; Clomid cycle to start soon

- arj14 - TTC since August 2013, DX PCOS 7/14, trying diet changes while saving up for any future treatment. 

- amandaf6383: TTC since July 2012. DX: PCOS. On Metformin. Clomid & getting healthy before pursuing IUI/IVF

- BruinsBabe33: my body hates me ttc#2 officially since April 2014, anovulatory long irregular cycles

-Flamingo86: TTC since July 2012, 4 losses. Dx: MTHFR, clotting issues, otherwise unexplained. Considering adoption.

-FutureMrsWright2012: NTNP since 8/2010. TTC since 3/2012. Dx DOR, poss. clotting issues. IUI + Clomid x 2 = BFN. IVF #1 = BFP; loss of our baby boy at 18 weeks. Getting mind and body ready for probable IVF#2 in 2015

-IloveRedVino: DX:Primary dx PCOS, secondary dx unexplained infertility. One stillbirth, one miscarriage, two failed IVF cycles. Exploring new options

-islandmonkey8 - TTC 22+ months, DH perfect, me unexplained annovulatory cycles. After 3 IUIs, one second tri loss, moving on to IVF

-nfp147: No longer actively TTC but still amazing support to 3T family and deeply loved.

-OceanHutt: TTC unofficially since 2011, officially since 2012. DX MFI. Meeting with RE for IVF. Completing testing and getting healthy prior to treatment.

-poppies717 - TTC #1 since Feb. '12; dx - unexplained; After two rounds of IVF and one loss, we are now pursuing DIA

-rccola1981: Dx endometriosis, mild pcos and male factor. Moving towards foster-adopt.

-Rockabye: TTC since Dec 2008, DX: PCOS with no ovulation at all.  Failed Clomid/IUI and Injectable/IUI cycles. 

-Seahorsey: TTC since October 2008, DX:Unexplained IF with failed IUIs and IVFs

-Sewilson33 - TTC since Dec. 2012; SA & BW came back great; Next step: HSG & RE

-Xan921: TTC since March 2012. DX irregular and anovulatory cycles; also DX with Complex Endometrial Hyperplasia.

-Ystaalenburg: TTC since February 2012 DX: PCOS @ 16; Currently taking break after 2 failed treatment cycles.

In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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Re: 3T Check in

  • Sending everyone lots of love as always.

    I'm in a holding pattern while the doctors talk it out. I'm irritated and annoyed that no matter how many people I talk to, no matter how many times I call I can't get an answer. I took a test today thinking that I could skip the whole thing, but that was pretty delusional of me. It's dumb.

  • Sorry, Bruins :( Hope your doctor situation gets figured out soon. 

    Update: Nothing new to update. I'm really hoping this bleeding ends soon though. Next step is more labs in 2 weeks. FX that my AMH is better!

    QOTW: DH and I are having a date night tomorrow. Not in the mood for adorable little Trick-Or-Treaters this year. Instead, we're going to see St. Vincent and then heading to a sports bar to watch the Suns game. Ready to get this month behind us finally... 


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • I'm sorry your doctors are being stupid @BruinsBabe33‌.

    @FutureMrsWright2012‌ big ((hugs)) I hope you have a great date night tomorrow.

    As for me, we did our teaching Monday. Estimated ER around 11/24. I start Lupron Monday.

    I hate a really shitty day at work today. It concluded with a tenant, who is consistently minutes from being evicted for not paying her rent, telling me that the universe will get even with me for how mean i am to her. (this year alone she was minutes from being locked out twice and now has court anew tomorrow) I melted down. Usually I don't take comments from tenants seriously but this one hit a very sensitive nerve. All I can and could think is maybe all the people I have to kick out of their homes to do my job is why we are where we are. I just couldn't help but think that maybe she's right and that's why we lost our babies.

    As for tomorrow, after giving tons of candy to trick or treaters, we're off to our friends Halloween party.
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    TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15
    With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.
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    IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.
    BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15
    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

    Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 
    Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day <3
    Anniversary 

  • Thanks, @islandmonkey8... I completely, 100% agree with Bruins, although admittedly, I have had similar thoughts these past couple of weeks. IMHO, the fact is that fucked up things happen to great people, and I refuse to think this has anything to do with more than awful, horrible luck. I'll never understand why we've lost our babies, and why other people who do far more terrible things still manage to keep theirs.

    I am so sorry that that awful woman who can't get her shit together is projecting her problems onto you. Like Bruins said, you don't deserve her nonsense. 

    Now, sending you big huge hugs and lots of good "follie growing" vibes your way! 


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Eeek, ILRV!!!! So excited! GL at U/S tomorrow! FX for great lining!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • ((hugs)) for Bruins and Island.

    GL to ILRV and Poppies! so exciting!!

     

    Nothing to report here. Business as usual.

    QOTW: Nothing. I'll answer the door and hand out candy, but my plans were dashed so I'm just blah about the whole thing now.

     

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • I'm still waiting for my first post-m/c cycle to start. If it doesn't happen in the next two weeks, I'm supposed to call my OB for progesterone to induce a bleed.

    I'm hoping to take E to our neighborhood Trunk or Treat, but DH is sick. I really want him to go with us because I don't want to go by myself.
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    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    J & J 10.21.06 
    BFP #1 02.13.12 
    We said goodbye to our sweet baby on 03.16.12. 
    BFP #2 07.07.12, due 3.18.13. Evelyn was born on 3.15.13!
    BFP #3 07.28.14
    We said goodbye to our triplets on 09.25.14.
    BFP #4 05.01.15, due 01.09.16
  • Still on the weightloss train..... (38 till we can start talking about it.....67 till the ultimate goal) wanting to drive to my RE's office and to the insurance company's office and shove my new weightloss year progress photo in their faces and say "FIGURE THIS OUT NOW!!!" Also almost punched my sister yesterday while carving a pumpkin with my niece and nephew I went to tell her something and paused after saying "i meant to tell you...." and she immediately fills in "you're pregnant????!?!?!?!?!" "no jackass i need to be probably your size for them to let me even try so when i start asking to borrow your pants you can start asking"

    I just hate every single fucking person that doesnt know why the scale matters so much "oh my god you look amazing!!! you should be so happy with what you are doing....dont keep weighing yourself its all about the clothes and how you feel!!! The scale doesnt matter" I almost jumped down the throat of a newbie at work who didnt know the real reason behind the numbers and forced myself to calmly fill her in myself :(

    SO Much love to you ladies :( fingers crossed where they need to be (Island and ILRV!!!) and FMW so many hugs to you as you come back to us :(<3 Bruins who's ass do i have to kick? YAY POPPIES!!!!!!!!!

    QOTW: Sitting freezing in my dining room (its the room with the front door and our storm door isnt insulated) handing out candy writing medical billing for work while DH is watching tv in the living room)....trying to not PMS eat all the candy lol and trying not to live in that bitter place with all the cute little ones coming to my door :(
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

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  • Anyone else have that close friend on their facebook pop up with the photo of the family in skeleton tshirts and hte caption that says "mommy, daddy, Anya and fetus no tricks just treats!" as an announcement? nope? just me? cool because its wine thirty....:P
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

    11440622
  • OceanHutt said:
    Anyone else have that close friend on their facebook pop up with the photo of the family in skeleton tshirts and hte caption that says "mommy, daddy, Anya and fetus no tricks just treats!" as an announcement? nope? just me? cool because its wine thirty....:P

    Avoiding FB at all costs today. :| BTW, congrats on all the weight loss, Ocean! In the home stretch now!


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Thinking of all you lovely ladies! <3

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • OceanHutt said:
    Anyone else have that close friend on their facebook pop up with the photo of the family in skeleton tshirts and hte caption that says "mommy, daddy, Anya and fetus no tricks just treats!" as an announcement? nope? just me? cool because its wine thirty....:P

    Avoiding FB at all costs today. :| BTW, congrats on all the weight loss, Ocean! In the home stretch now!
    Yeaaaaa I should have done that too.....and thank you! :) need to just get the rest of it off....at least the 38...i thought it was more than that and then sat and did the math last night.....makes me feel a tiny bit better....<3
    Ashley & Jeremy 10/10/10

    Getting fit for IVF! :) (add another 20lbs and you have my total weight lost! :) )

    11440622
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