January 2012 Weddings
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So.. here's the thing. I had two wonderful families, who got along, who talked, would spend holidays together, so on and so forth. Well, moving day happened. I could write a novel on what really happened, but I'm not even emotionally ready to talk about that yet, nor do you all want to read the long drawn out story. Needless to say, an exchange of words happened, and now the sets of parents refuse to talk to each other. I'm actually with J on his parents side, which has been incredibly difficult. My parents refuse to apologize, because they feel they did nothing wrong, and J's parents are waiting for an apology that they will never get.
Regardless, I need some advice. Does anyone else have ILs that don't get along? How do you deal with holidays? Because if I don't spend time with each, I never will hear the end of it.
Re: Holiday Plans
Thanks.
I hope everyone is able to make up eventually.
That’s such a tough situation! Hopefully your in-laws will be able to work through things before the holidays!
teedaalee0712
Yes, they probably will be possessive forever.
And not crossing the line. I'm just hoping it won't be like this forever. I don't want it to be.